You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You're welcome. Next time though think out your thread instead of asking people to make duplicates... it keeps the forum less cluttered.Originally posted by SheDevil
I wish I could do a 'poll' with this question, but I am just not that computer savvy. I feel I would get more reponses and keep the thread very short. Yes, that was a hint.
Originally posted by diablo
You're welcome. Next time though think out your thread instead of asking people to make duplicates... it keeps the forum less cluttered.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Not if YOU are the one that has it in YOUR possesion at all times... Just be sure that u have one of those state of the arts safes in handyOriginally posted by MegaPlaya
It would seem like a good idea at the time.. It's something that could be used against you though..
yay... Don Juan p0rn :crackup: hmmm.... Wyldfire.... I'm still waiting for the "movie" you promised meOriginally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
My girlfriend and I are going to make one soon. She brings it up a lot.![]()
Maybe I'll put it up on the internet for you guys.
....Especially you Wyldfire. :yes:
Let's see, what was going thru my head when I polled the question: "If you could watch a video of yourself making love, would you?"Originally posted by Brother_Rapp
I wonder what was going on inside the head of this personwhen she started this thread? Nobody thought this demented thread wasn't worth discussing?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.