"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Would you make a video of you and your partner?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Although i dont have a video cam i do have a digi cam that records short video clips ive been using.
I started by being discreet about it, hiding it behind some books on my shelf. Then i just busted it out on wednesday and she was totally into it, making me promise not to put it on the net tho. -__-
I sort of have a bet going on this topic.
I feel many couples WOULD want to do this, for fun or for curiosity,as long as they knew it would be kept private.
Some friends of mine, both males and females, said that most couples would NOT want to do this. To top it off, they called it a rather "twisted idea".
I wish I could do a 'poll' with this question, but I am just not that computer savvy. I feel I would get more reponses and keep the thread very short.
Yes, that was a hint. Any helpers?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
diablo
Master Don Juan
You're welcome. Next time though think out your thread instead of asking people to make duplicates... it keeps the forum less cluttered.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Brother_Rapp
Banned
yay... Don Juan p0rn :crackup: hmmm.... Wyldfire.... I'm still waiting for the "movie" you promised meOriginally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
My girlfriend and I are going to make one soon. She brings it up a lot.
Maybe I'll put it up on the internet for you guys.
....Especially you Wyldfire. :yes:
Let's see, what was going thru my head when I polled the question: "If you could watch a video of yourself making love, would you?"
Um, I was thinking -- "If you could watch a video of yourself making love, would you?
It was an obvious question, a simple 'Yes' or 'No' is all that is required from you.
I will consider you a 'NO' vote, since you felt my thread "demented". (Which I find very sad, BTW)
Now, you must admit, you pulled this 9 day old thread out of its peaceful rest ONLY because you wanted to stir something.
You got all pissy and wanted to stomp on the women who dare to challenge your integrity, or lack thereof, because they got sassy with you on your "kicking a woman's a$s" chronicle.
I have to wonder, what would you have done if I were within your reach? Hmmm?
I feel you are the male version of an attention *****, I bet you record the number of views and replies and get off on this hallucininatory impact you feel you are having on people. Are book sales really that slow?
To me your post are outreaches or a search for validity:
Maybe you want to blame your mommy for your down falls in life, so you come up with this "single mom" saga.
Maybe you had to withhold monies from your wife so she couldnt run off, so you invented the "traditional marriage" epistle.
And just maybe you "kicked a woman ass" and you want someone to tell you that 'you are the man'!
I think you should take the high road and be accountable for your own actions, but you won't, you will continue to try to find someone who will pat you on the hand and give you this dillusional approval you so desparately seek.
Soon there will be more polls, laced with evasive text, misleading topics and open-ended questions in order to get you the attention you so frantically desire.
One thing you should take into consideration, the majority of people on this site see right through you.
If you want advise, ask for it.
If you want help, state your delimma.
This isnt the place for you to come to seek support for your past life. I just dont think you will find the appreciation you are looking for.
Gook luck in your quest,
SheDevil
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Bring video camera...
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