"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Would you eat a fat person?

Call_Me_Daddy

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If you were starving on a deserted island somewhere with a coleague who happened to be overweight. What would you do? Note: You don't really know the coleague. You don't like or dislike them. Just meh.

Let's say that there is rescue coming in a few weeks. You have fresh water nearby so dehydrating is not a problem. However, there is no food. Your fat friend can last for weeks off the deposits on the body. However, you're pretty skinny and you have less time.

What would you do?


BTW. Yes there is some "food" on this supposed island, but not enough to last until help arrives.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bonhomme

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I'd certainly prefer the well-marbled meat of a fat person over someone who is skinnier.

What the hell kind of thread is this?!?!?!
 

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I nominate this thread for the most random thread created in March. LOL!
 

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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if I were on an island with just a couple of other people, I'd find a way to kill them so they can't kill me...much safer :)

plus...hell yeah I'd eat him - I'd be roasting my island-mates before I even got hungry!
 

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I would feed him even more and once he gets big enough I´d kill him and make some sort of raft out of him and escape from the island.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So you are baiting us to say yes? is that what you want, you little cannibal?

Well let' see, I am normal, and going to be hungry.... now how hungry do you think the fatty over there is going to be missing his enormous meals he is used to?!!
 

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
No. Not eonugh fish to last you until help arrives.

You're going to starve. What do you do?
Gee, I didn't know the ocean could run out of fish :rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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but it can never run out of his desire to eat a fatty..
 

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howardalex said:
plus...hell yeah I'd eat him - I'd be roasting my island-mates before I even got hungry!
:crackup: :rockon:

lmao!

gotta look out for number 1, right? ;)
 

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THE_ADDMAN said:
:crackup: :rockon:

lmao!

gotta look out for number 1, right? ;)
absolutely man, eat those mother ****ers with some farva beans and a nice kiante ;)
 

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I'd eat him, I would wait as long as possible, but I wouldn't be hanging around him. Sleep up in a tree where his fat a** can't drop a big rock on my head.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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