"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Would you date this girl?

Reservoir Dog

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Friend of a cousin.
Comes from a decent middle-class family.
37. Attractive. Say a 6.
Revealed on second date she was sexually abused as a kid by Uncle.
Doesn't work.
Gets high or drinks every day.
Is seeing a psychiatrist and is on medic
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wouldn't it be better to hang out in private in that case?
I've fingered girls in public. I was in a dorm longue room but there was others sitting around watching tv and walking through while we were both under a blanket. I would like to see it done in a more public place. Maybe you can be a hero. Just get the reference experience bro.
 

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I've fingered girls in public. I was in a dorm longue room but there was others sitting around watching tv and walking through while we were both under a blanket. I would like to see it done in a more public place. Maybe you can be a hero. Just get the reference experience bro.
So given my description of this woman, you'd have no problem getting involved?
No. Too old and she sounds like a lowlife.
I wouldn't call her a lowlife. Her cousin is a good friend of mine so I know she comes from a decent family.
Probably the sexual abuse thing has haunted her. She said she did a big showdown with her family last week but nobody believed her.

I feel for her as I experienced psychological abuse as a kid but still, those warning signals are sounding off loud and hard inside me. Especially as I know what I was like prior to my 'reformation'.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what are you scared about? Every girl your going to meet your probably going to have fears and desire with.

Just because some guys on the internet would or wouldn't bang a 6 who has substance and mental problems doesn't mean you shouldn't.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your mind is telling you no. But your body is telling you yes.

Try a little bump n grind. Invite her over to your pad and put some music on.
 

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what are you scared about? Every girl your going to meet your probably going to have fears and desire with.

Just because some guys on the internet would or wouldn't bang a 6 who has substance and mental problems doesn't mean you shouldn't.
I'm scared that she's not good enough for me.
 

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Friend of a cousin.
Comes from a decent middle-class family.
37. Attractive. Say a 6.
Revealed on second date she was sexually abused as a kid by Uncle.
Doesn't work.
Gets high or drinks every day.
Is seeing a psychiatrist and is on medic
Cluster B alert.
 

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I think he's trolling. The is the 2nd thread he's made about this chick.
Yes. I rephrased the question as the original post wasn't getting any responses. I reframed it as a question.

Doesn't mean I'm a troll. I've been here since 2015.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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