"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Would you date this girl?

Reservoir Dog

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Friend of a cousin.
Comes from a decent middle-class family.
37. Attractive. Say a 6.
Revealed on second date she was sexually abused as a kid by Uncle.
Doesn't work.
Gets high or drinks every day.
Is seeing a psychiatrist and is on medic
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wouldn't it be better to hang out in private in that case?
I've fingered girls in public. I was in a dorm longue room but there was others sitting around watching tv and walking through while we were both under a blanket. I would like to see it done in a more public place. Maybe you can be a hero. Just get the reference experience bro.
 

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I've fingered girls in public. I was in a dorm longue room but there was others sitting around watching tv and walking through while we were both under a blanket. I would like to see it done in a more public place. Maybe you can be a hero. Just get the reference experience bro.
So given my description of this woman, you'd have no problem getting involved?
No. Too old and she sounds like a lowlife.
I wouldn't call her a lowlife. Her cousin is a good friend of mine so I know she comes from a decent family.
Probably the sexual abuse thing has haunted her. She said she did a big showdown with her family last week but nobody believed her.

I feel for her as I experienced psychological abuse as a kid but still, those warning signals are sounding off loud and hard inside me. Especially as I know what I was like prior to my 'reformation'.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what are you scared about? Every girl your going to meet your probably going to have fears and desire with.

Just because some guys on the internet would or wouldn't bang a 6 who has substance and mental problems doesn't mean you shouldn't.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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7onriverI f

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Your mind is telling you no. But your body is telling you yes.

Try a little bump n grind. Invite her over to your pad and put some music on.
 

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what are you scared about? Every girl your going to meet your probably going to have fears and desire with.

Just because some guys on the internet would or wouldn't bang a 6 who has substance and mental problems doesn't mean you shouldn't.
I'm scared that she's not good enough for me.
 

GioWolf

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Friend of a cousin.
Comes from a decent middle-class family.
37. Attractive. Say a 6.
Revealed on second date she was sexually abused as a kid by Uncle.
Doesn't work.
Gets high or drinks every day.
Is seeing a psychiatrist and is on medic
Cluster B alert.
 

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I think he's trolling. The is the 2nd thread he's made about this chick.
Yes. I rephrased the question as the original post wasn't getting any responses. I reframed it as a question.

Doesn't mean I'm a troll. I've been here since 2015.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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