"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Would you date this girl?

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Friend of a cousin.
Comes from a decent middle-class family.
37. Attractive. Say a 6.
Revealed on second date she was sexually abused as a kid by Uncle.
Doesn't work.
Gets high or drinks every day.
Is seeing a psychiatrist and is on medic
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Reservoir Dog said:
wouldn't it be better to hang out in private in that case?
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I've fingered girls in public. I was in a dorm longue room but there was others sitting around watching tv and walking through while we were both under a blanket. I would like to see it done in a more public place. Maybe you can be a hero. Just get the reference experience bro.
 
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7onriverI f said:
I've fingered girls in public. I was in a dorm longue room but there was others sitting around watching tv and walking through while we were both under a blanket. I would like to see it done in a more public place. Maybe you can be a hero. Just get the reference experience bro.
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So given my description of this woman, you'd have no problem getting involved?
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No. Too old and she sounds like a lowlife.
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I wouldn't call her a lowlife. Her cousin is a good friend of mine so I know she comes from a decent family.
Probably the sexual abuse thing has haunted her. She said she did a big showdown with her family last week but nobody believed her.

I feel for her as I experienced psychological abuse as a kid but still, those warning signals are sounding off loud and hard inside me. Especially as I know what I was like prior to my 'reformation'.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what are you scared about? Every girl your going to meet your probably going to have fears and desire with.

Just because some guys on the internet would or wouldn't bang a 6 who has substance and mental problems doesn't mean you shouldn't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your mind is telling you no. But your body is telling you yes.

Try a little bump n grind. Invite her over to your pad and put some music on.
 
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7onriverI f said:
what are you scared about? Every girl your going to meet your probably going to have fears and desire with.

Just because some guys on the internet would or wouldn't bang a 6 who has substance and mental problems doesn't mean you shouldn't.
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I'm scared that she's not good enough for me.
 
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Friend of a cousin.
Comes from a decent middle-class family.
37. Attractive. Say a 6.
Revealed on second date she was sexually abused as a kid by Uncle.
Doesn't work.
Gets high or drinks every day.
Is seeing a psychiatrist and is on medic
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Cluster B alert.
 
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jaymbrs said:
I think he's trolling. The is the 2nd thread he's made about this chick.
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Yes. I rephrased the question as the original post wasn't getting any responses. I reframed it as a question.

Doesn't mean I'm a troll. I've been here since 2015.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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