"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would you date this girl?

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Friend of a cousin.
Comes from a decent middle-class family.
37. Attractive. Say a 6.
Revealed on second date she was sexually abused as a kid by Uncle.
Doesn't work.
Gets high or drinks every day.
Is seeing a psychiatrist and is on medic
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Reservoir Dog said:
wouldn't it be better to hang out in private in that case?
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I've fingered girls in public. I was in a dorm longue room but there was others sitting around watching tv and walking through while we were both under a blanket. I would like to see it done in a more public place. Maybe you can be a hero. Just get the reference experience bro.
 
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7onriverI f said:
I've fingered girls in public. I was in a dorm longue room but there was others sitting around watching tv and walking through while we were both under a blanket. I would like to see it done in a more public place. Maybe you can be a hero. Just get the reference experience bro.
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So given my description of this woman, you'd have no problem getting involved?
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No. Too old and she sounds like a lowlife.
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I wouldn't call her a lowlife. Her cousin is a good friend of mine so I know she comes from a decent family.
Probably the sexual abuse thing has haunted her. She said she did a big showdown with her family last week but nobody believed her.

I feel for her as I experienced psychological abuse as a kid but still, those warning signals are sounding off loud and hard inside me. Especially as I know what I was like prior to my 'reformation'.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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what are you scared about? Every girl your going to meet your probably going to have fears and desire with.

Just because some guys on the internet would or wouldn't bang a 6 who has substance and mental problems doesn't mean you shouldn't.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your mind is telling you no. But your body is telling you yes.

Try a little bump n grind. Invite her over to your pad and put some music on.
 
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7onriverI f said:
what are you scared about? Every girl your going to meet your probably going to have fears and desire with.

Just because some guys on the internet would or wouldn't bang a 6 who has substance and mental problems doesn't mean you shouldn't.
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I'm scared that she's not good enough for me.
 
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Friend of a cousin.
Comes from a decent middle-class family.
37. Attractive. Say a 6.
Revealed on second date she was sexually abused as a kid by Uncle.
Doesn't work.
Gets high or drinks every day.
Is seeing a psychiatrist and is on medic
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Cluster B alert.
 
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jaymbrs said:
I think he's trolling. The is the 2nd thread he's made about this chick.
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Yes. I rephrased the question as the original post wasn't getting any responses. I reframed it as a question.

Doesn't mean I'm a troll. I've been here since 2015.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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