The_Reaper
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, no? And why?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Would you date a girl who was 3 years older than you?
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I like yonger women, Im 26, and 18 - 22 sounds right. But sure, Id date older woman too, especially if only 3 years older. Id even date MILF, 40s, 50s, these days you can be hot and 50. Experience? Sexually they like it rough, generally, thats how I like it too.
sparky0000
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Last time I was attracted to an older girl was back when I was 7. There was this 8 year old girl who had a face that looked just like the face of a plump little rat. She was the most amazing creature I had ever seen. I knew at what time she arrived at school and at what time she left school. I was a 7 year old stalker.
Halloween came and we were supposed to wear costumes. Well, this girl decides to come dressed as a RAT!!! I kid you not. Well, actually she came dressed as Mini Mouse. I had Mommy take a picture of her for me. The rest of the year I never saw Becky, I just saw Mini.
Halloween came and we were supposed to wear costumes. Well, this girl decides to come dressed as a RAT!!! I kid you not. Well, actually she came dressed as Mini Mouse. I had Mommy take a picture of her for me. The rest of the year I never saw Becky, I just saw Mini.
BlackJackal
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Yea I'd an older woman. And have done an older woman.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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More of a challenge? I think you are the first person to ever say that.NFC said:
It is a very chic thing in America to go out with older broads. It starts with the gay...er...straight celebrities who get older broads. All of a sudden every Chandler and Tyson wants one. Kinda like how American dudes seem to really be into chunky females. I DO NOT mean ALL MEN, but there is a definite trend. It might also stem from the fact that the caliber of girl in America has dropped so much in the last 20 years. Take a look at pictures of American girls back in the early 80's. They don't even have the same genetic features that the modern day American girl has.
Am I the only one to notice these things? Nope. One reason why the runways in NY had more Estonian girls (a population of barely over 1 million) than American girls this fashion season. Sad. There was a time when you could find some pretty American girls.
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And that's evolution for you.sparky0000 said:
Seriously, you realize that while the core of your point is possibly right, this statement is just insanely idiotic, right?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Hey, I know of a guy who has celebrated his 30th birthday for the past 17 years. I kid you not. He has the cake with the number 30 etched into it. People give toasts and talk about his first 30 years of life. He even has a video tribute to himself where the number 30 flashes in between the videos. I guess if it works for ya. From the pictures I have seen, the girls in attendance get younger every 30th birthday party he has.mrRuckus said:
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I started seeing my ex-girlfriend when I was 18 and she was 21. I don't think age was really a big issue in our relationship.
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Sparky, you are in sync with the rhythmn of truth!!!sparky0000 said:
Keep it real regardless of the hor/homo miscreants to sway you otherwise!!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
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It all depends on what you want out of the relationship. Gettogethers primarily to bump uglies face have scheduling difficulties at most. However, once you start thinking about relationships you really need to look at both your character and the woman's.
If you are looking to forgo the fun of carefree, young adult years for that of a lifestyle of a "mature man" (term used loosely), then be ready to step up to the plate and act like a man who has a decade or more experience (yes, it can be done). But understand that it will be easier to you to change into stoic mature old fart than for her to change into a spring break babe. Is it worth it?
If you are looking to forgo the fun of carefree, young adult years for that of a lifestyle of a "mature man" (term used loosely), then be ready to step up to the plate and act like a man who has a decade or more experience (yes, it can be done). But understand that it will be easier to you to change into stoic mature old fart than for her to change into a spring break babe. Is it worth it?
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No. I'm old. lol.The_Reaper said:
For me dating a woman over 40 is pretty pointless unless you're looking for a laundry woman on the cheap.
lol... damn, I feel nerdy for understanding the light speed pun...mrRuckus said:
I'd date a women older then me, but I'd use it to get some experience. If they have 3 years on me, odds are they have had 3 years more sex then I and I could stand to learn a thing or two.
But I guess age doesn't matter that much. I would have to say, I dated at girl that was 2 years younger then me, that was a huge mistake. But I was like 17, and she was 15, or around there. She was so darn immature, it was ridiculous.
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why would you not?
speed slowing down time... i thought everyone knew that
speed slowing down time... i thought everyone knew that
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.