The_Reaper
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Yeah, no? And why?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Would you date a girl who was 3 years older than you?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I like yonger women, Im 26, and 18 - 22 sounds right. But sure, Id date older woman too, especially if only 3 years older. Id even date MILF, 40s, 50s, these days you can be hot and 50. Experience? Sexually they like it rough, generally, thats how I like it too.
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Last time I was attracted to an older girl was back when I was 7. There was this 8 year old girl who had a face that looked just like the face of a plump little rat. She was the most amazing creature I had ever seen. I knew at what time she arrived at school and at what time she left school. I was a 7 year old stalker.
Halloween came and we were supposed to wear costumes. Well, this girl decides to come dressed as a RAT!!! I kid you not. Well, actually she came dressed as Mini Mouse. I had Mommy take a picture of her for me. The rest of the year I never saw Becky, I just saw Mini.
Halloween came and we were supposed to wear costumes. Well, this girl decides to come dressed as a RAT!!! I kid you not. Well, actually she came dressed as Mini Mouse. I had Mommy take a picture of her for me. The rest of the year I never saw Becky, I just saw Mini.
BlackJackal
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Yea I'd an older woman. And have done an older woman.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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More of a challenge? I think you are the first person to ever say that.NFC said:
It is a very chic thing in America to go out with older broads. It starts with the gay...er...straight celebrities who get older broads. All of a sudden every Chandler and Tyson wants one. Kinda like how American dudes seem to really be into chunky females. I DO NOT mean ALL MEN, but there is a definite trend. It might also stem from the fact that the caliber of girl in America has dropped so much in the last 20 years. Take a look at pictures of American girls back in the early 80's. They don't even have the same genetic features that the modern day American girl has.
Am I the only one to notice these things? Nope. One reason why the runways in NY had more Estonian girls (a population of barely over 1 million) than American girls this fashion season. Sad. There was a time when you could find some pretty American girls.
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And that's evolution for you.sparky0000 said:
Seriously, you realize that while the core of your point is possibly right, this statement is just insanely idiotic, right?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Hey, I know of a guy who has celebrated his 30th birthday for the past 17 years. I kid you not. He has the cake with the number 30 etched into it. People give toasts and talk about his first 30 years of life. He even has a video tribute to himself where the number 30 flashes in between the videos. I guess if it works for ya. From the pictures I have seen, the girls in attendance get younger every 30th birthday party he has.mrRuckus said:
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I started seeing my ex-girlfriend when I was 18 and she was 21. I don't think age was really a big issue in our relationship.
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Sparky, you are in sync with the rhythmn of truth!!!sparky0000 said:
Keep it real regardless of the hor/homo miscreants to sway you otherwise!!!!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Francisco d'Anconia
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It all depends on what you want out of the relationship. Gettogethers primarily to bump uglies face have scheduling difficulties at most. However, once you start thinking about relationships you really need to look at both your character and the woman's.
If you are looking to forgo the fun of carefree, young adult years for that of a lifestyle of a "mature man" (term used loosely), then be ready to step up to the plate and act like a man who has a decade or more experience (yes, it can be done). But understand that it will be easier to you to change into stoic mature old fart than for her to change into a spring break babe. Is it worth it?
If you are looking to forgo the fun of carefree, young adult years for that of a lifestyle of a "mature man" (term used loosely), then be ready to step up to the plate and act like a man who has a decade or more experience (yes, it can be done). But understand that it will be easier to you to change into stoic mature old fart than for her to change into a spring break babe. Is it worth it?
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No. I'm old. lol.The_Reaper said:
For me dating a woman over 40 is pretty pointless unless you're looking for a laundry woman on the cheap.
lol... damn, I feel nerdy for understanding the light speed pun...mrRuckus said:
I'd date a women older then me, but I'd use it to get some experience. If they have 3 years on me, odds are they have had 3 years more sex then I and I could stand to learn a thing or two.
But I guess age doesn't matter that much. I would have to say, I dated at girl that was 2 years younger then me, that was a huge mistake. But I was like 17, and she was 15, or around there. She was so darn immature, it was ridiculous.
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why would you not?
speed slowing down time... i thought everyone knew that
speed slowing down time... i thought everyone knew that
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.