"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Would you date a girl who was 3 years older than you?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I like yonger women, Im 26, and 18 - 22 sounds right. But sure, Id date older woman too, especially if only 3 years older. Id even date MILF, 40s, 50s, these days you can be hot and 50. Experience? Sexually they like it rough, generally, thats how I like it too.
 

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Last time I was attracted to an older girl was back when I was 7. There was this 8 year old girl who had a face that looked just like the face of a plump little rat. She was the most amazing creature I had ever seen. I knew at what time she arrived at school and at what time she left school. I was a 7 year old stalker.

Halloween came and we were supposed to wear costumes. Well, this girl decides to come dressed as a RAT!!! I kid you not. Well, actually she came dressed as Mini Mouse. I had Mommy take a picture of her for me. The rest of the year I never saw Becky, I just saw Mini.
 

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Yea I'd an older woman. And have done an older woman.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Older woman rock.. they're more of a challenge, I think.
 

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NFC said:
Older woman rock.. they're more of a challenge, I think.
More of a challenge? I think you are the first person to ever say that.

It is a very chic thing in America to go out with older broads. It starts with the gay...er...straight celebrities who get older broads. All of a sudden every Chandler and Tyson wants one. Kinda like how American dudes seem to really be into chunky females. I DO NOT mean ALL MEN, but there is a definite trend. It might also stem from the fact that the caliber of girl in America has dropped so much in the last 20 years. Take a look at pictures of American girls back in the early 80's. They don't even have the same genetic features that the modern day American girl has.

Am I the only one to notice these things? Nope. One reason why the runways in NY had more Estonian girls (a population of barely over 1 million) than American girls this fashion season. Sad. There was a time when you could find some pretty American girls.
 

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sparky0000 said:
Am I the only one to notice these things? Nope. One reason why the runways in NY had more Estonian girls (a population of barely over 1 million) than American girls this fashion season. Sad. There was a time when you could find some pretty American girls.
Hahaha good one
 

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The_Reaper said:
Yeah, no? And why?
Depends on the woman more than the age. So... maybe. I could see it happen, depending on the woman, unless she was a skank.
 

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sparky0000 said:
They don't even have the same genetic features that the modern day American girl has.
And that's evolution for you.

Seriously, you realize that while the core of your point is possibly right, this statement is just insanely idiotic, right?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Considering that I am 21, she would be like 24. That's an acceptable age range.

If she is hot, good in bed and treats me like a king, why not?
 

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She used to be 3 years older than you? How is that possible? Did one of you at some point approach light speed?
 

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mrRuckus said:
She used to be 3 years older than you? How is that possible? Did one of you at some point approach light speed?
Hey, I know of a guy who has celebrated his 30th birthday for the past 17 years. I kid you not. He has the cake with the number 30 etched into it. People give toasts and talk about his first 30 years of life. He even has a video tribute to himself where the number 30 flashes in between the videos. I guess if it works for ya. From the pictures I have seen, the girls in attendance get younger every 30th birthday party he has.
 
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I started seeing my ex-girlfriend when I was 18 and she was 21. I don't think age was really a big issue in our relationship.
 
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sparky0000 said:
More of a challenge? I think you are the first person to ever say that.

It is a very chic thing in America to go out with older broads. It starts with the gay...er...straight celebrities who get older broads. All of a sudden every Chandler and Tyson wants one. Kinda like how American dudes seem to really be into chunky females. I DO NOT mean ALL MEN, but there is a definite trend. It might also stem from the fact that the caliber of girl in America has dropped so much in the last 20 years. Take a look at pictures of American girls back in the early 80's. They don't even have the same genetic features that the modern day American girl has.

Am I the only one to notice these things? Nope. One reason why the runways in NY had more Estonian girls (a population of barely over 1 million) than American girls this fashion season. Sad. There was a time when you could find some pretty American girls.
Sparky, you are in sync with the rhythmn of truth!!! :up:

Keep it real regardless of the hor/homo miscreants to sway you otherwise!!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If she is (1) five years older than you AND (2) 35+ years of age; then I would strongly suggest to AVOID them based on the 'likelihood' of things going from bad to worst.

Other than that? I don't see a problem.
 

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It all depends on what you want out of the relationship. Gettogethers primarily to bump uglies face have scheduling difficulties at most. However, once you start thinking about relationships you really need to look at both your character and the woman's.

If you are looking to forgo the fun of carefree, young adult years for that of a lifestyle of a "mature man" (term used loosely), then be ready to step up to the plate and act like a man who has a decade or more experience (yes, it can be done). But understand that it will be easier to you to change into stoic mature old fart than for her to change into a spring break babe. Is it worth it?
 

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The_Reaper said:
Yeah, no? And why?
No. I'm old. lol.

For me dating a woman over 40 is pretty pointless unless you're looking for a laundry woman on the cheap.
 

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mrRuckus said:
She used to be 3 years older than you? How is that possible? Did one of you at some point approach light speed?
lol... damn, I feel nerdy for understanding the light speed pun...


I'd date a women older then me, but I'd use it to get some experience. If they have 3 years on me, odds are they have had 3 years more sex then I and I could stand to learn a thing or two.

But I guess age doesn't matter that much. I would have to say, I dated at girl that was 2 years younger then me, that was a huge mistake. But I was like 17, and she was 15, or around there. She was so darn immature, it was ridiculous.


Foamy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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