The_Reaper
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Yeah, no? And why?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Would you date a girl who was 3 years older than you?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I like yonger women, Im 26, and 18 - 22 sounds right. But sure, Id date older woman too, especially if only 3 years older. Id even date MILF, 40s, 50s, these days you can be hot and 50. Experience? Sexually they like it rough, generally, thats how I like it too.
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Last time I was attracted to an older girl was back when I was 7. There was this 8 year old girl who had a face that looked just like the face of a plump little rat. She was the most amazing creature I had ever seen. I knew at what time she arrived at school and at what time she left school. I was a 7 year old stalker.
Halloween came and we were supposed to wear costumes. Well, this girl decides to come dressed as a RAT!!! I kid you not. Well, actually she came dressed as Mini Mouse. I had Mommy take a picture of her for me. The rest of the year I never saw Becky, I just saw Mini.
Halloween came and we were supposed to wear costumes. Well, this girl decides to come dressed as a RAT!!! I kid you not. Well, actually she came dressed as Mini Mouse. I had Mommy take a picture of her for me. The rest of the year I never saw Becky, I just saw Mini.
BlackJackal
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Yea I'd an older woman. And have done an older woman.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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More of a challenge? I think you are the first person to ever say that.NFC said:
It is a very chic thing in America to go out with older broads. It starts with the gay...er...straight celebrities who get older broads. All of a sudden every Chandler and Tyson wants one. Kinda like how American dudes seem to really be into chunky females. I DO NOT mean ALL MEN, but there is a definite trend. It might also stem from the fact that the caliber of girl in America has dropped so much in the last 20 years. Take a look at pictures of American girls back in the early 80's. They don't even have the same genetic features that the modern day American girl has.
Am I the only one to notice these things? Nope. One reason why the runways in NY had more Estonian girls (a population of barely over 1 million) than American girls this fashion season. Sad. There was a time when you could find some pretty American girls.
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And that's evolution for you.sparky0000 said:
Seriously, you realize that while the core of your point is possibly right, this statement is just insanely idiotic, right?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
sparky0000
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Hey, I know of a guy who has celebrated his 30th birthday for the past 17 years. I kid you not. He has the cake with the number 30 etched into it. People give toasts and talk about his first 30 years of life. He even has a video tribute to himself where the number 30 flashes in between the videos. I guess if it works for ya. From the pictures I have seen, the girls in attendance get younger every 30th birthday party he has.mrRuckus said:
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I started seeing my ex-girlfriend when I was 18 and she was 21. I don't think age was really a big issue in our relationship.
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Sparky, you are in sync with the rhythmn of truth!!!sparky0000 said:
Keep it real regardless of the hor/homo miscreants to sway you otherwise!!!!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Francisco d'Anconia
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It all depends on what you want out of the relationship. Gettogethers primarily to bump uglies face have scheduling difficulties at most. However, once you start thinking about relationships you really need to look at both your character and the woman's.
If you are looking to forgo the fun of carefree, young adult years for that of a lifestyle of a "mature man" (term used loosely), then be ready to step up to the plate and act like a man who has a decade or more experience (yes, it can be done). But understand that it will be easier to you to change into stoic mature old fart than for her to change into a spring break babe. Is it worth it?
If you are looking to forgo the fun of carefree, young adult years for that of a lifestyle of a "mature man" (term used loosely), then be ready to step up to the plate and act like a man who has a decade or more experience (yes, it can be done). But understand that it will be easier to you to change into stoic mature old fart than for her to change into a spring break babe. Is it worth it?
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No. I'm old. lol.The_Reaper said:
For me dating a woman over 40 is pretty pointless unless you're looking for a laundry woman on the cheap.
lol... damn, I feel nerdy for understanding the light speed pun...mrRuckus said:
I'd date a women older then me, but I'd use it to get some experience. If they have 3 years on me, odds are they have had 3 years more sex then I and I could stand to learn a thing or two.
But I guess age doesn't matter that much. I would have to say, I dated at girl that was 2 years younger then me, that was a huge mistake. But I was like 17, and she was 15, or around there. She was so darn immature, it was ridiculous.
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why would you not?
speed slowing down time... i thought everyone knew that
speed slowing down time... i thought everyone knew that
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.