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Would an earring work for me?

ilikeburritos

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I've been working on my looks lately, and I think I've improved a lot so far. Here's what I looked like a couple months ago:

http://i4.tinypic.com/82xzza9.jpg
http://i8.tinypic.com/6okyusw.jpg

and here's now:

http://i30.tinypic.com/2d0guat.jpg
http://i25.tinypic.com/123m91z.jpg

Mainly I grew my hair out a little, and have worked on my facial expressions - making sure I always have a friendly look on my face and stuff.

Anyhow, now I'm thinking about getting an earring in my left ear - a small diamond stud or something. It seems like with men and earrings - for some it works and for others it just doesn't. So I just wanna get some opinions...

do you think I could pull off an earring in one ear?

thanks
 

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Infamous J

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Yeah man I think you could. Accessories are a good thing, go for it.
 

martinM.

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The hair looks really good.

I would pass on the earring. Just my opinion though.
 

AmazingTricks

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Keep the hair at a 1, 1.5 at the most. Get a stud in each ear. That's what cool right now anyways...but that's just my 2. And if you want to go for it, try some Justin Timberlake/Heathledger boy-facial-hair thing. That last one is one if you feel comfy in it, if not, scrap it.
 

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Chillisauce

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Was getting all ready to shout NO but after looking at the pics, yeah i think it'd suit your face. I recently removed mine, had two piercings in the right eyebrow usually with long spikes, got me a lot of good attention.
 
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