"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Would an earring work for me?

ilikeburritos

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I've been working on my looks lately, and I think I've improved a lot so far. Here's what I looked like a couple months ago:

http://i4.tinypic.com/82xzza9.jpg
http://i8.tinypic.com/6okyusw.jpg

and here's now:

http://i30.tinypic.com/2d0guat.jpg
http://i25.tinypic.com/123m91z.jpg

Mainly I grew my hair out a little, and have worked on my facial expressions - making sure I always have a friendly look on my face and stuff.

Anyhow, now I'm thinking about getting an earring in my left ear - a small diamond stud or something. It seems like with men and earrings - for some it works and for others it just doesn't. So I just wanna get some opinions...

do you think I could pull off an earring in one ear?

thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Infamous J

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Yeah man I think you could. Accessories are a good thing, go for it.
 

martinM.

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The hair looks really good.

I would pass on the earring. Just my opinion though.
 

AmazingTricks

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Keep the hair at a 1, 1.5 at the most. Get a stud in each ear. That's what cool right now anyways...but that's just my 2. And if you want to go for it, try some Justin Timberlake/Heathledger boy-facial-hair thing. That last one is one if you feel comfy in it, if not, scrap it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chillisauce

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Was getting all ready to shout NO but after looking at the pics, yeah i think it'd suit your face. I recently removed mine, had two piercings in the right eyebrow usually with long spikes, got me a lot of good attention.
 
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