"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Would an earring work for me?

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I've been working on my looks lately, and I think I've improved a lot so far. Here's what I looked like a couple months ago:

http://i4.tinypic.com/82xzza9.jpg
http://i8.tinypic.com/6okyusw.jpg

and here's now:

http://i30.tinypic.com/2d0guat.jpg
http://i25.tinypic.com/123m91z.jpg

Mainly I grew my hair out a little, and have worked on my facial expressions - making sure I always have a friendly look on my face and stuff.

Anyhow, now I'm thinking about getting an earring in my left ear - a small diamond stud or something. It seems like with men and earrings - for some it works and for others it just doesn't. So I just wanna get some opinions...

do you think I could pull off an earring in one ear?

thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah man I think you could. Accessories are a good thing, go for it.
 
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The hair looks really good.

I would pass on the earring. Just my opinion though.
 
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Keep the hair at a 1, 1.5 at the most. Get a stud in each ear. That's what cool right now anyways...but that's just my 2. And if you want to go for it, try some Justin Timberlake/Heathledger boy-facial-hair thing. That last one is one if you feel comfy in it, if not, scrap it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Was getting all ready to shout NO but after looking at the pics, yeah i think it'd suit your face. I recently removed mine, had two piercings in the right eyebrow usually with long spikes, got me a lot of good attention.
 
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