"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Would an earring work for me?

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I've been working on my looks lately, and I think I've improved a lot so far. Here's what I looked like a couple months ago:

http://i4.tinypic.com/82xzza9.jpg
http://i8.tinypic.com/6okyusw.jpg

and here's now:

http://i30.tinypic.com/2d0guat.jpg
http://i25.tinypic.com/123m91z.jpg

Mainly I grew my hair out a little, and have worked on my facial expressions - making sure I always have a friendly look on my face and stuff.

Anyhow, now I'm thinking about getting an earring in my left ear - a small diamond stud or something. It seems like with men and earrings - for some it works and for others it just doesn't. So I just wanna get some opinions...

do you think I could pull off an earring in one ear?

thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah man I think you could. Accessories are a good thing, go for it.
 
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The hair looks really good.

I would pass on the earring. Just my opinion though.
 
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Keep the hair at a 1, 1.5 at the most. Get a stud in each ear. That's what cool right now anyways...but that's just my 2. And if you want to go for it, try some Justin Timberlake/Heathledger boy-facial-hair thing. That last one is one if you feel comfy in it, if not, scrap it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Was getting all ready to shout NO but after looking at the pics, yeah i think it'd suit your face. I recently removed mine, had two piercings in the right eyebrow usually with long spikes, got me a lot of good attention.
 
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