"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Would an earring work for me?

ilikeburritos

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I've been working on my looks lately, and I think I've improved a lot so far. Here's what I looked like a couple months ago:

http://i4.tinypic.com/82xzza9.jpg
http://i8.tinypic.com/6okyusw.jpg

and here's now:

http://i30.tinypic.com/2d0guat.jpg
http://i25.tinypic.com/123m91z.jpg

Mainly I grew my hair out a little, and have worked on my facial expressions - making sure I always have a friendly look on my face and stuff.

Anyhow, now I'm thinking about getting an earring in my left ear - a small diamond stud or something. It seems like with men and earrings - for some it works and for others it just doesn't. So I just wanna get some opinions...

do you think I could pull off an earring in one ear?

thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Infamous J

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Yeah man I think you could. Accessories are a good thing, go for it.
 

martinM.

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The hair looks really good.

I would pass on the earring. Just my opinion though.
 

AmazingTricks

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Keep the hair at a 1, 1.5 at the most. Get a stud in each ear. That's what cool right now anyways...but that's just my 2. And if you want to go for it, try some Justin Timberlake/Heathledger boy-facial-hair thing. That last one is one if you feel comfy in it, if not, scrap it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chillisauce

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Was getting all ready to shout NO but after looking at the pics, yeah i think it'd suit your face. I recently removed mine, had two piercings in the right eyebrow usually with long spikes, got me a lot of good attention.
 
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