Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Vulpine said:It's not JUST PC muscles to work on. There is a second part of ejaculation control that must be worked on, but is generally neglected/ignored.
See, most guys do kegals fine, but they do them in a manner that elevates the testicles.
:nono:
That's "bad form". Like any exercise, form matters. The proper kegal form is to contract the muscle that cuts off urine flow WITHOUT clenching the muscles that elevate the testicles. You'll need to watch what's going on down there to get a feeling of which muscles are doing what. Once you've isolated only the muscle that cuts off urine flow and get a feel for maintaining testicle position while clencing, then you can rock out as many kegal reps as you want.
In the meantime, to delay ejaculation, clench it off as you would normally... but since your testicles are drawing up also, reach down and pull them away from your body (or have her do it). The testicles need to be drawn up close to the body in order to ejaculate, so pulling them away and clenching works great to stop ejaculation.
Once you've isolated the muscles that elevate the testicles, and learn to keep them relaxed, you'll be amazed at how long your orgasms last. I've had some long, long, orgasms without "ejaculation" climax: 10-15 minutes easy... believe me - I've actually hyper-ventillated a couple times.
Keeping those muscles relaxed is much easier when you are on your back. That way, you have gravity to help keep the testicles pulled away from the body. I find that when I'm on top and moving, I tend to "mess up" and lose track of their position with all the swinging around going on, plus it's crazy stimulating to have them smacking against her... *SPLAT*
Indeed, bad form Kegals have a negative effect because they draw up the testicles TIGHTER to the body, thus making you ejaculate FASTER! If I am taking too long, I draw them up closer and thus speed things along.
Orgasm is seperate from ejaculationNFC said:I was under the assumption that "multiple orgasm" meant you could still stimulate yourself (thrusting in and out) and still not ejaculate while orgasming.. apparently that's not the case.. according to this article I've been a "multiple orgasm"er for awhile heh.. I don't see a point if you have to stop. That's no matter then stopping, waiting for your penis to get soft and lose a little wood then starting again. Or am I completely wrong here?
I've always been able to orgasm and ejaculate, keep my wood and orgasm and ejaculate again.. I've also been able to ejaculate, but have no orgasm... am I doing it right?
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.