"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women w/o a "type" will date average Joes

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Whenever I had actually garnered dates with women, when asked what do they look for in a man, they say they don't have a type...to me, that's a plus because it means they aren't picky and are rather diverse when they do go out with someone.

Even hot ladies can be this way because I recall a rather attractive women admitting to have dated almost all types physically, be it chubby, stalky, bald, short, tall, even muscular/athletic. As long as they were nice guys, that's all that mattered.

Usually their list of attributes that they seek in a man are pretty basic. They'll usually mention 3 or 4 descriptors like "He's nice, funny, respectful, and kind." Something like that. VERY basic. They aren't picky and pretty much willing to give almost any guy, short of farting and burping outloud, a date.

These are the kind of women that even average joes have a shot at. Ever come across women like this? They are kind of unicorns.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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an intelligent person doesn't have a hard type that they stick to
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nice funny and kind. Oh yeah that's really going to give them tingles. I must have missed that chapter in the DJ Bible.
Actually sprinkle a tad bit of indifference and that's pretty much the correct formula
 

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Nice funny and kind. Oh yeah that's really going to give them tingles. I must have missed that chapter in the DJ Bible.
Because it's in a book called 101 ways to enter the friendzone. This is point #4.
 

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Cola that's too simplified. What I absolutely would agree with is you have to build comfort with a woman first. If you look at woman that's how they approach each other. But then you have to do your DJ work teasing aloofness kino leading.
 

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I think we all have types. I definitely do. But I think we've all ventured out of those types and been pleased with what we've found. I know I have.

Find your niche but explore other avenues sometimes.
 

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Cola that's too simplified. What I absolutely would agree with is you have to build comfort with a woman first. If you look at woman that's how they approach each other. But then you have to do your DJ work teasing aloofness kino leading.
Yea of course some playful teasing.. Aloofness & indifference are kind of synonymous at least in this context
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think when a woman says that she wants a nice guy, it's like a guy saying he likes redheads. her not having red hair isn't so important that it's a deal breaker if she's a blonde instead, it's just a little cherry on top of the sundae, but a sundae with no cherry is almost equally good
 
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