"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women w/o a "type" will date average Joes

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Whenever I had actually garnered dates with women, when asked what do they look for in a man, they say they don't have a type...to me, that's a plus because it means they aren't picky and are rather diverse when they do go out with someone.

Even hot ladies can be this way because I recall a rather attractive women admitting to have dated almost all types physically, be it chubby, stalky, bald, short, tall, even muscular/athletic. As long as they were nice guys, that's all that mattered.

Usually their list of attributes that they seek in a man are pretty basic. They'll usually mention 3 or 4 descriptors like "He's nice, funny, respectful, and kind." Something like that. VERY basic. They aren't picky and pretty much willing to give almost any guy, short of farting and burping outloud, a date.

These are the kind of women that even average joes have a shot at. Ever come across women like this? They are kind of unicorns.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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an intelligent person doesn't have a hard type that they stick to
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nice funny and kind. Oh yeah that's really going to give them tingles. I must have missed that chapter in the DJ Bible.
Actually sprinkle a tad bit of indifference and that's pretty much the correct formula
 

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Nice funny and kind. Oh yeah that's really going to give them tingles. I must have missed that chapter in the DJ Bible.
Because it's in a book called 101 ways to enter the friendzone. This is point #4.
 

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Cola that's too simplified. What I absolutely would agree with is you have to build comfort with a woman first. If you look at woman that's how they approach each other. But then you have to do your DJ work teasing aloofness kino leading.
 

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I think we all have types. I definitely do. But I think we've all ventured out of those types and been pleased with what we've found. I know I have.

Find your niche but explore other avenues sometimes.
 

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Cola that's too simplified. What I absolutely would agree with is you have to build comfort with a woman first. If you look at woman that's how they approach each other. But then you have to do your DJ work teasing aloofness kino leading.
Yea of course some playful teasing.. Aloofness & indifference are kind of synonymous at least in this context
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think when a woman says that she wants a nice guy, it's like a guy saying he likes redheads. her not having red hair isn't so important that it's a deal breaker if she's a blonde instead, it's just a little cherry on top of the sundae, but a sundae with no cherry is almost equally good
 
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