DharmaBear
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How would one define a "quality" woman?
-Dharma
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
women today - poll
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
KontrollerX
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Lower quality.
Mr.Positive
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I thought if you treat women as people you end up in the friend zone.
Am I the only one who finds this thread completely hillarious?
Am I the only one who finds this thread completely hillarious?
Mr.Positive
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But...women adapt to their environment..therefore, they change.blueguy said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Right, but basically the problem here is that humans are going to do whatever they can get away with. I know we're talking women here, but it's really the same thing. Let's make some cases:Mr.Positive said:
Whenever a society gets law enforcement (in the past, present, future):
A. Rape goes way down.
B. Theft goes way down.
Now that we have laws in place against racial profiling:
C. Racism goes way down.
etc.
But the fact is, deep down inside people still want to rape (sex), steal (secure), prejudge. It's all biological.
Does it mean people are less or more quality just because they can or can't do something they could or couldn't before? Not in my opinion...
Divorce is up because it's socially acceptable. But guess what? Wives still bickered with their husbands back in the day. It's in the friggin' Bible. Hate/selfishness has always existed, and it always will.
At least we're not murdering thousands of people a day in huge wars like we did hundreds of years ago.
Maybe I'm arguing a minute point here, but I think it's really pointless to complain that women are of poorer quality now than in the past (which I don't think is the case). It doesn't actually solve the problem. Solving the problem would be providing these "low quality" women of today with the new conditions that benefit them (and us at the same time).
But getting to the root of it:
Women can't be controlled in a marriage as easy today as in the past.
Yes, that's true.
(Because they can walk with half your stuff)
And I believe that is what guys here are referring to as a quality woman.
Women can't be controlled in a marriage as easy today as in the past.
Yes, that's true.
(Because they can walk with half your stuff)
And I believe that is what guys here are referring to as a quality woman.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you know what, squirrels replied to this thread first and said all people in general were lower quality also.jophil28 said:
why are you not trying to argue with him?
why are you only trying to argue with me?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Maybe he likes you Pen...penkitten said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hitman10000
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I'm not surprised that a lot of men here say that women just plain suck. However, it's the same for women. WHat's the difference between men/women now and let's say.. back in the 1960s?
Well...
1. They didn't have the internet
2. THey didn't have Cable TV
3. They didn't have mass marketing
4. They didn't have birth control pill
5. They didn't have gun violence problems/rape problems/high crime
Because they didn't men focused their lives hanging with their buddies, working cars, or doing something productive. Women, the same with cooking, learning arts and crafts, etc.
Well...
1. They didn't have the internet
2. THey didn't have Cable TV
3. They didn't have mass marketing
4. They didn't have birth control pill
5. They didn't have gun violence problems/rape problems/high crime
Because they didn't men focused their lives hanging with their buddies, working cars, or doing something productive. Women, the same with cooking, learning arts and crafts, etc.
Last Man Standing
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A woman get get no lower than the "hor" status - she has reached her lowest depths!!!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
The poll's been spammed.
Not having been around for enough generations, I'm not about to make a call one way or the other.
It does appear they're more confused, though... as are men.
Not having been around for enough generations, I'm not about to make a call one way or the other.
It does appear they're more confused, though... as are men.