DharmaBear
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How would one define a "quality" woman?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
women today - poll
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KontrollerX
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Lower quality.
Mr.Positive
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I thought if you treat women as people you end up in the friend zone.
Am I the only one who finds this thread completely hillarious?
Am I the only one who finds this thread completely hillarious?
Mr.Positive
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But...women adapt to their environment..therefore, they change.blueguy said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Right, but basically the problem here is that humans are going to do whatever they can get away with. I know we're talking women here, but it's really the same thing. Let's make some cases:Mr.Positive said:
Whenever a society gets law enforcement (in the past, present, future):
A. Rape goes way down.
B. Theft goes way down.
Now that we have laws in place against racial profiling:
C. Racism goes way down.
etc.
But the fact is, deep down inside people still want to rape (sex), steal (secure), prejudge. It's all biological.
Does it mean people are less or more quality just because they can or can't do something they could or couldn't before? Not in my opinion...
Divorce is up because it's socially acceptable. But guess what? Wives still bickered with their husbands back in the day. It's in the friggin' Bible. Hate/selfishness has always existed, and it always will.
At least we're not murdering thousands of people a day in huge wars like we did hundreds of years ago.
Maybe I'm arguing a minute point here, but I think it's really pointless to complain that women are of poorer quality now than in the past (which I don't think is the case). It doesn't actually solve the problem. Solving the problem would be providing these "low quality" women of today with the new conditions that benefit them (and us at the same time).
But getting to the root of it:
Women can't be controlled in a marriage as easy today as in the past.
Yes, that's true.
(Because they can walk with half your stuff)
And I believe that is what guys here are referring to as a quality woman.
Women can't be controlled in a marriage as easy today as in the past.
Yes, that's true.
(Because they can walk with half your stuff)
And I believe that is what guys here are referring to as a quality woman.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you know what, squirrels replied to this thread first and said all people in general were lower quality also.jophil28 said:
why are you not trying to argue with him?
why are you only trying to argue with me?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Maybe he likes you Pen...penkitten said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hitman10000
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I'm not surprised that a lot of men here say that women just plain suck. However, it's the same for women. WHat's the difference between men/women now and let's say.. back in the 1960s?
Well...
1. They didn't have the internet
2. THey didn't have Cable TV
3. They didn't have mass marketing
4. They didn't have birth control pill
5. They didn't have gun violence problems/rape problems/high crime
Because they didn't men focused their lives hanging with their buddies, working cars, or doing something productive. Women, the same with cooking, learning arts and crafts, etc.
Well...
1. They didn't have the internet
2. THey didn't have Cable TV
3. They didn't have mass marketing
4. They didn't have birth control pill
5. They didn't have gun violence problems/rape problems/high crime
Because they didn't men focused their lives hanging with their buddies, working cars, or doing something productive. Women, the same with cooking, learning arts and crafts, etc.
Last Man Standing
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A woman get get no lower than the "hor" status - she has reached her lowest depths!!!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bonhomme
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The poll's been spammed.
Not having been around for enough generations, I'm not about to make a call one way or the other.
It does appear they're more confused, though... as are men.
Not having been around for enough generations, I'm not about to make a call one way or the other.
It does appear they're more confused, though... as are men.