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I disagree but then again, my experience with Southern Italians comes from Italians from Jersey and the Tri-State area. Most are of Sicilian descent.I wouldnt make it a race related issue, there are plenty of blonde haired blue eyed southern italians that behave and think exactly like their darker counterparts.
They do have a chip on their shoulder but its not race related, its more due to the disfunctional environment they live in which is all made of appearance, reputation and "respect" regardless their productivity or utility.
Souther italian women are not racist as you believe, the only reason they dont deal with african guys is because of status so once you make african guys cool (like media is doing), they will be the first ones to flock at them.
Trust me I had much less problems dealing with farmers from ukraine who could barely read and write then lotta educated people from south Italy but thats not because of race, its basically cause they start a d1ck measuring contest and trying to impress those around them even if you are there only to give them money.
It's just a thread for self-loathing racetards to complain. If I meet a cool woman, she can be from Mars for all I care.It seems to me that a lot of folks here, and in general in the US, have mixed up Italians and Italian-Americans, thinking that if you go to Italy everyone will be like in the Sopranos or the Jersey Shore...
(I am not Italian myself so no offence taken)
Exactly!It's just a thread for self-loathing racetards to complain. If I meet a cool woman, she can be from Mars for all I care.
Cool women are definitely out there. I just wish they were in abundance.It's just a thread for self-loathing racetards to complain. If I meet a cool woman, she can be from Mars for all I care.
LOL... this is basically what I observed in my last relationship.I will say there are plenty of single moms that are dateable. There are crazy ones just like there are with single childless women who are crazy too. Not sure I would completely throw them into this category of not being dateable. Regardless they can make great plates.
I would add the following to the mix for the un-dateable groups-
1.) Passive aggressive women- My personality/character is a major conflict with a passive aggressive woman. It simply doesnt work and I have broken things off with more than one of them. If there is an issue in a LTR I expect to be able to talk about it, come to a resolution and move on. When a woman wants to pout around for days over something stupid that is thrown up in my face literally days/weeks after the fact, its GTFO and deuces. I cant do it.....I wont do it.
2.) Manipulative to get her way- When they cant break my frame they get shytty acting and manipulative. Well, sorry chick, but my frame is more solid than your manipulation tactics will ever be.
3.) Passive altogether- there are those that make the world go round and those that watch the world go round. I am a driven person that goes after what I want and failure isnt an option when I set my sights on accomplishing something. I cant stand someone that literally just "takes" what life gives them and then b!tches about it after they made ZERO effort to dictate the outcome. Motion creates emotion. I like do'ers not watchers/complainers.
I just dropped a doctor I was seeing for almost 5 months because of the above 3 things. She would literally just take shyte by the bucket fulls from certain people and then get all mad when she couldnt break my frame. Continue to pout for days over stupid shyte and then super p!ssed when I didnt budge and be very manipulative. Once she saw that I wouldnt budge she would come back and apologize and try to make amends. Its just a vicious cycle that never ends and I dont have time for that.
When you hear the following, you should put them on the back burner or move on:
*If you really loved me you would understand
*If you really loved me you would (whatever it is she wanted to manipulate you into doing). My response to this is always "Yeah but I love myself more and I just dont want to do that so I'm not going to do it"
*Well there really isnt anything that I can do about it (when there clearly is to remedy a situation)
*Well OK then (after you dont budge on their stupid requests)
Been to Italy (not recently tho since Coronavirus is there!), stayed there for months, and have plenty of Italian friends. I'd say both Italy and Italian-Americans are equally bad although Italian-Americans are much worse so you're on to something there.It seems to me that a lot of folks here, and in general in the US, have mixed up Italians and Italian-Americans, thinking that if you go to Italy everyone will be like in the Sopranos or the Jersey Shore...
(I am not Italian myself so no offence taken)
I wanted to create a list of women that need to be avoided at all costs in order for a man to live a healthy sane life, here is my list:
1. Women with excessive tattoos, this also includes women with skillrex haircuts. Any women that does weird stuff to make herself look like a clown.
Truly damaged for the most part, likely into some weird stuff and mental problems you can write a novel on. A lot of them run with some sketch people and you can count on most being into feminism or the manhating types. Not the hottest but begging for attention most of the times. Be weary!
I don't think there is any exception to this rule, avoid these women.
2. Single moms.
Does this really need much explanation?
3. Women with a history of mental health problems or any woman that casually brings up rape.
Women who have been through traumatic stuff will generally talk about it once they REALLY know you, if she talks about in a casual way, run the other way yourself. These types of women are a false accusation waiting to happen, cover yourself and run the other way!
4. Women who regularly bleach and dye their hair, especially weird colors.
Same with skillrex haircut women, they are looking for extra attention they did not regularly receive and are damaged on the inside. Avoid these women, most are bound to have daddy issues and do anything for attention.
5. White-washed ethnic women with excessive self-hatred.
This is especially true if she is Asian, Indian and Middle Eastern. Most women who have excessive self-hatred have a ton of mental health issues that will manifest later on in the relationship. I have countless white friends who married a white-washed Asian girl thinking they were getting the best deal, these were the same guys that were wrecked in that relationship and stressed like no one's business. The happiest white guys I knew who married ethnic women married the ones that were secure in themselves or the foreign ones.
6. Italian women (of any kind).
Italian women are truly the worst of the worst, it is why Italian men are thirsty for men women from other countries. Does not matter if she is Italian from NYC or Italian from Sicily, Italian women are a bundle of short tempers, narcissism, mental health issues and sociopathy. Learn from Italian men, avoid Italian women at all costs, they are a mess.
Might have been a stereotype 50 years ago but I promise you as an American (born and raised) who has been all over, your women are seen as anything but. The common stereotypes I hear are arrogant, narcissistic, plastic, and insecure. I have not heard of anyone say Italian women are good looking and when they do say it, she is usually from the north and looks white. Most Southern Italian women are a cheap knockoff of a Persian girl or Latina, they have this strange look to them.And lastly, we have PLENTY of good looking women here. It's even a stereotype in foreign media that our girls look good. Sophia Loren was from Naples, and she wasn't half bad looking in her day.
Trump said that about Mexicans but regardless, there is not that big of a difference, both are heavily involved in the mafia and have almost similar attitudes.There is a huge difference with actual South Italians and Italian Americans, like Trump said they are not sending their best over.
The problem isn't the women, the real issue is that the Italian men are so thirsty. They even give Arabs and Indians a run for their money
I'm definately in the camp that tattoos (by themselves) say alot about the woman, in a negative way.You guys are hilarious!
A couple points:
1) Generally good advice, but has cases where you can ignore the rule. Tattoos by themselves arent bad. Paired with Feminism, weird self-image, and general mental issues then just swipe left haha.
2) Same idea as 1. Generally good advice but has exceptions. I've had a great time with single moms in there early to mid thirties. But I ALWAYS, 100% of the time, NEVER FAIL to screen them for direct and indirect behaviours that make the context of our relationship anything other than merely sexual. I'm not raising no one elses kid and they no that in a few mins.
3) This is a hard rule that i think you never should violate.
4) I can get where your coming from here but its about the underlying behaviour not the hair.
5) Fair point but again SCREEN FOR THIS.
6) Same thing, SCREEN FOR RISKY BEHAVIOURS.
Cheers
Just how much time have you spent in Southern Italy to come to the conclusion that the women have a "strange look to them" (which is a vague statement and means nothing)?Might have been a stereotype 50 years ago but I promise you as an American (born and raised) who has been all over, your women are seen as anything but. The common stereotypes I hear are arrogant, narcissistic, plastic, and insecure. I have not heard of anyone say Italian women are good looking and when they do say it, she is usually from the north and looks white. Most Southern Italian women are a cheap knockoff of a Persian girl or Latina, they have this strange look to them.
A reasonable amount my friend. You guys are generally darker than the northerners and even though your food is a lot better, your women are filthy hideous and that is no offense. Too much body hair and they look like an offbeat of Arab or Latina chicks. I'll say Northern Italian women can be hot but southern Italians are trash.lmao
Just how much time have you spent in Southern Italy to come to the conclusion that the women have a "strange look to them" (which is a vague statement and means nothing)?
Persians? Latinas? You've been watching too much TV. 90% of women here are white.
They do dress well and are groomed well enough but it is not a kind culture or even beautiful. Very vain, narcissistic, and drama hungry.I don't really agree with this, in Italy I mean. They dress well and are well groomed but it's a beautiful culture overall. Can't speak too much about the Jersey shore culture.
Figures, you haven't spent much time here at all have you.A reasonable amount my friend. You guys are generally darker than the northerners and even though your food is a lot better, your women are filthy hideous and that is no offense. Too much body hair and they look like an offbeat of Arab or Latina chicks. I'll say Northern Italian women can be hot but southern Italians are trash.