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Men and women are not the same. What's attractive in a female for a man is usually the exact opposite of what's attractive in a man for a female.
Women love strong successful men, men love submissive caring women. Women are turned on by a man in demand, men are turned off by a woman who's in demand (has s3x with many men).
Feminists love to compare the genders and assume that it must be the same, just because it would be unfair otherwise due to their agenda of gathering more power. So we can't just assume one thing has to be the same for the other gender in a direct comparison when we're wired differently.
Edgy makes a man attractive but it's not the same for a woman and that is partly what having a tattoo is expressing.

I have no knowledge about men who're tattooed and their potential for something serious long term but i suspect they would fall more into the 'alpha male' category just because of the 'edgyness' and willingness to stand out, the observation in female's come from experience.



Women rarely like it just because it's beautiful, they like it because all of her friends seem to like it and then she starts to 'like' it too.
There's no coincidence that the girl going on party trips with her friends jumping from c0ck to c0ck has multiple tattoos while the submissive, caring girl who loves to cook and put your needs before hers doesn't.
Women and men are different for sure. I can also agree there might be somewhat of a correlation between tattoos and promiscuous girls.

But I personally wouldn't feel comfortable making such a broad generalisation like calling most tattoed women damaged or promiscuous. I think you'lle need to know a lot of tatooed women to do that.

Even though women are more influenced by their friends, I think this is more of a case of like minded people being attracted to eachother. Gym rats hang out with other gym rats. Video game nerds hang out with other video game nerds etc. From experience, I don't think women are as hive-minded as you're making them out to be.

Personally, I prefer to stay open minded about tatoos. Especially since it's so prevalent nowadays. In my book it would be a yellow flag at the very most.
 

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I wanted to create a list of women that need to be avoided at all costs in order for a man to live a healthy sane life, here is my list:

1. Women with excessive tattoos, this also includes women with skillrex haircuts. Any women that does weird stuff to make herself look like a clown.

Truly damaged for the most part, likely into some weird stuff and mental problems you can write a novel on. A lot of them run with some sketch people and you can count on most being into feminism or the manhating types. Not the hottest but begging for attention most of the times. Be weary!

I don't think there is any exception to this rule, avoid these women.

2. Single moms.

Does this really need much explanation?

3. Women with a history of mental health problems or any woman that casually brings up rape.

Women who have been through traumatic stuff will generally talk about it once they REALLY know you, if she talks about in a casual way, run the other way yourself. These types of women are a false accusation waiting to happen, cover yourself and run the other way!

4. Women who regularly bleach and dye their hair, especially weird colors.

Same with skillrex haircut women, they are looking for extra attention they did not regularly receive and are damaged on the inside. Avoid these women, most are bound to have daddy issues and do anything for attention.

5. White-washed ethnic women with excessive self-hatred.

This is especially true if she is Asian, Indian and Middle Eastern. Most women who have excessive self-hatred have a ton of mental health issues that will manifest later on in the relationship. I have countless white friends who married a white-washed Asian girl thinking they were getting the best deal, these were the same guys that were wrecked in that relationship and stressed like no one's business. The happiest white guys I knew who married ethnic women married the ones that were secure in themselves or the foreign ones.

6. Italian women (of any kind).

Italian women are truly the worst of the worst, it is why Italian men are thirsty for men women from other countries. Does not matter if she is Italian from NYC or Italian from Sicily, Italian women are a bundle of short tempers, narcissism, mental health issues and sociopathy. Learn from Italian men, avoid Italian women at all costs, they are a mess.
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Yeah but you missed one thing, Mediterranean culture is as narcissistic as it gets, none can rival it except the Arabs maybe.

Italians are all too used to the world kissing their a**ses since the Pope is there, it is the "fashion capital" (I say the French are better), the good cuisine, and because it is considered classy to go there.

I say Southern Euro men and Arabs have single-handedly ruined Eastern Europe. Now EE women are just as entitled as Mediterranean women, I'd say Ukraine is beyond awful and the women there suck.

Unfortunately, we are the red pilled men who see what a dump Mediterranean culture is but Hollywood and mainstream media is too busy making these people seem like the cream of crop of high society.
That was the most ignorant post i have ever seen in this forum . Period
 

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Nice going ****face, I just broke no fap due to that blonde mirror pic lol. Perfectly good underwear ruined :'(

Oh man I would ravish her so hard and suck on those nips like a baby for those xD

Staying relevant though, I do want to double down on the sentiment that the more blonde and white looking Italian women are chill as phuark. I find it to be true for white women in general as a guy who can pass for Middle Eastern (Eastern Euro here, seems like the Ottomans really did a number on my DNA lol).

I've had a great experience with the Italian women I knew who were blonde, they were fun and chill to be around. The real problem I have are with Italian women that look "Italian" and I think you probably had the same experience too. The blonde ones and white looking ones are chill and cool to be around, even more chill than other white girls since it is a good mix of that Italian swag in there.

It is the tanned Latina looking ones I always have an issue with and find are really the ones embodying the worst traits associated with Italian women. I find that the darker she is and more ethnic she looks, the bigger personality mess she is in. I also agree with the sentiment that if you are not a pasty pale dude or a blond, don't bother, they tend to be racist AF. A couple I knew were open racist and said very insensitive comments.

Come to think of it, my worst experiences with Italians in general have been with the ones who can pass for Arab or Hispanic or something. Those are the ones who seem angry all the time and always happy to stir the pot.

As for why I give so much of a crap, I recently developed a thing for the Kim K look. Thank god for Slavic women! My cousin who lives in Romania raves about the raven haired beauties there, I might just travel once this corona crap has healed up.
 

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You kind proved my point there. I am not shocked to see you do well with blonde and more paler Italian chicks. Even as an Asian dude, I've had my successes with them. As I said in an earlier post, the Italians who look white are actually calm AF and chill.

Now on the flip side, I cannot see you pullin an Arianna Grande or Monica Bellucci looking girl. The type that actually look ethnic, they are gung ho crazy over anyone that can give them whiter babies. Those are the more damaged type of Italian women I am talking about.
Damn, I assume the like to mean that I was right.

Sux since I have a thing for girls with that kind of look buttt, thank god for Romania and Slavic chicks, we'll survive ^_^
 
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Nice going ****face, I just broke no fap due to that blonde mirror pic lol. Perfectly good underwear ruined :'(

Oh man I would ravish her so hard and suck on those nips like a baby for those xD
lol Yeah man, she was a great time and fun chick to hang out with.
 

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I bet, come to think of it now, I would be shocked after reading @Good Gao and his comments if most of your lays were blondes from Eastern Europe or just blondes in general.

I've gotta say I noticed something, the darker whites are usually the ones who are angrier or more ruthless against minorities or ethnic people. I think, as someone who fits the mold himself, that we have more of an axe to grind and more to prove in terms of our whiteness. Now this is why you might see an Irina Shayk type of girl with a man who looks like a total troll but just because he happens to be pale or blond looking, she picked him over a Wilmer Valderrama looking dude.

It's almost a deep dive into a girl's psych.

Meanwhile a hot blonde just wants hot guys and cool guys.

I kind of do think it is working backwards and kind of thinking what goes on in the heads of these women. The more ethnic looking white girls without a doubt have a massive inferiority complex compared to their blonde haired blue eyed sisters.

We probably look around the same @In2theGame but I notice that I clean up with white girls who are the following:
  • Blonde or light-haired (Gingers especially)
  • If brunette then UNMISTAKABLY white and not even ethnic looking in the slightest
  • Pale skin with freckles
I won't be surprised if that is who you do well with.

I do horrendously with white girls who look slightly ethnic or have that Kim K, Jenner sisters, or Dua Lipa look going on. Hands down auto-rejected by them and barely match on dating apps.
 

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I bet, come to think of it now, I would be shocked after reading @Good Gao and his comments if most of your lays were blondes from Eastern Europe or just blondes in general.

I've gotta say I noticed something, the darker whites are usually the ones who are angrier or more ruthless against minorities or ethnic people. I think, as someone who fits the mold himself, that we have more of an axe to grind and more to prove in terms of our whiteness. Now this is why you might see an Irina Shayk type of girl with a man who looks like a total troll but just because he happens to be pale or blond looking, she picked him over a Wilmer Valderrama looking dude.

It's almost a deep dive into a girl's psych.

Meanwhile a hot blonde just wants hot guys and cool guys.

I kind of do think it is working backwards and kind of thinking what goes on in the heads of these women. The more ethnic looking white girls without a doubt have a massive inferiority complex compared to their blonde haired blue eyed sisters.

We probably look around the same @In2theGame but I notice that I clean up with white girls who are the following:
  • Blonde or light-haired (Gingers especially)
  • If brunette then UNMISTAKABLY white and not even ethnic looking in the slightest
  • Pale skin with freckles
I won't be surprised if that is who you do well with.

I do horrendously with white girls who look slightly ethnic or have that Kim K, Jenner sisters, or Dua Lipa look going on. Hands down auto-rejected by them and barely match on dating apps.
Honestly, I never had a problem any types. The darker brunettes may tend to have a rougher personality and attitude but it never really stopped me from getting with them. I have a thing for blondes so that's what i went after but if i saw an attractive brunette whether she was light skin or dark skin, I went for it. Below you can see, the first blonde chick I met at a bar and that was my ideal look. Second was a darker skin brunette I met a while back, she was sexy and modeled. Third was a model as well, she actually picked me up at a bar. She had that light brown hair and light skin. I was able to get with all types of Women. My GF now is dark haired Russian and more on the light tan skin side.
 

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Nice work @In2theGame and you are doing all of this at age 37, right? Kind of curious to know when you were at your peak if you have even reached it yet.

Yeah as hot as those girls are, man that blonde Italian chick on the previous page always gets me, the first mirror pic. I hope you destroyed that thing and ate her good lol.

As for the women I was talking about, I would not say second brunette is that dark. I was talking darker and ethnic looking, like a Monica Bellucci or Arina Grande type of chick that can borderline pass for a Latina. I find that as a swarthy Slavic dude, I struggle the most with those kinds of women and barely get much attention from them.
 

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As someone who almost broke no fap himself due to the blonde on the last page, there comes a time in game when a man decides that he has to go where he can get the highest return on his investment. Let's break it all down, @In2theGame is clearly a good looking dude (no homo) with some value living in a prime part of the country.

I would wonder why he would want to waste his time gaming some dark-haired tanned guido trash with a big ego, high entitlement, and deep-seated inferiority complex. A part of me thinks that maybe women acting like stuck-up prudes in some way has its benefits, it can make an otherwise low quality product seem decent.

Now even if a guy had a thing for the dark haired tanned skin white girl types (Megan Fox, Kim K, etc.), there are so many cultures and ethnic groups where you can get top-shelf quality in terms of looks and even personality. If I am going to go through hell or high water, I rather do it for some Slavic, Russian, other kinds of white girls that have that look, and even Jewish girls. You'd be surprised how common that look is among Anglos, some Northern Europeans, and even a lot of American girls of mixed heritage groups.

Gentlemen, learn from @In2theGame the real lesson, man got himself a Russian girl with those Irina Shayk/hot exotic brunette looks. Don't go looking for quality in cultures that are trash for game and producing hot girls, you'll only find trash at best and have invested a lot of time in doing it.

If I had a strong strong urge for black haired white girls, the Italians are the last group I would be looking at. Imagine the amount of mental health and insecurities that thing must have knowing her blonde sisters are being more sought after than her.
 
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Hmmmm. Well. If I get bored here...I’ll go to Italy or Spain. Those are the types of men I find most attractive...and I’m happy being a traditional gal who can keep a man amused.

Nobody but me seemed to catch @Spaz and his point. Does she entertain you & amuse you? That’s very important.

There’s a reason The Arabian Nights became a classic (the actual story in addition to the book...) that was a smart & clever woman who knew how to amuse her man...

And her life depended on it.

Viva Espana and Italia. I plan to travel there soon.

Agree most with @Glassguy. You don’t want pouty passive aggressive manipulative types...and you don’t want utterly passive women either.

The passive aggressive manipulative types will ANNOY you and the utterly passive types will BORE you...back to the amusement factor...as Spaz pointed out.
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Nice work @In2theGame and you are doing all of this at age 37, right? Kind of curious to know when you were at your peak if you have even reached it yet.

Yeah as hot as those girls are, man that blonde Italian chick on the previous page always gets me, the first mirror pic. I hope you destroyed that thing and ate her good lol.

As for the women I was talking about, I would not say second brunette is that dark. I was talking darker and ethnic looking, like a Monica Bellucci or Arina Grande type of chick that can borderline pass for a Latina. I find that as a swarthy Slavic dude, I struggle the most with those kinds of women and barely get much attention from them.
I would say up to 35 but I could still pick up Women if I decided I wanted to into my 40's (Possibly even 50's). I started focusing a lot more on Business, my health and investments rather than Women. Since I have a GF now, I'm not picking up Women however i do flirt heavily with my GF's friends to keep my skills somewhat fresh.

With that aside, Yes that blond girl was great and she was a bombshell. I had her very submissive to me to the point that no matter what, if i told her "get on your knees" she would do it. I met her at an "upscale" NYC lounge and while I was waiting in line to get in with my friend, I had spotted her outside talking to her friends. I told my friend "Wow did you see that ass?" he laughs and i told him "As soon as we get upstairs to our section, i'm going to look for her and approach". I did exactly that but at first i couldnt find her, i literally went looking for her around the lounge until i figured her and her group of friends must of left when all of a sudden i look over and i see her and her group of friends hanging out at another section. I could see guy after guy trying to talk to her but she kept brushing them off. I grabbed my drink, went over to her and told her straight out that ive been checking her out since i spotted her outside. long story short, we ended up fvcking for almost 2 years. she would drive about 2 hours to see me and she was pretty wealthy (BMW's, Mercedes, Rolex's etc.). She was fun chick, sometimes pretty crazy but nothing I couldn't handle. What Woman isn't crazy at times?
 
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As someone who almost broke no fap himself due to the blonde on the last page, there comes a time in game when a man decides that he has to go where he can get the highest return on his investment. Let's break it all down, @In2theGame is clearly a good looking dude (no homo) with some value living in a prime part of the country.

I would wonder why he would want to waste his time gaming some dark-haired tanned guido trash with a big ego, high entitlement, and deep-seated inferiority complex. A part of me thinks that maybe women acting like stuck-up prudes in some way has its benefits, it can make an otherwise low quality product seem decent.

Now even if a guy had a thing for the dark haired tanned skin white girl types (Megan Fox, Kim K, etc.), there are so many cultures and ethnic groups where you can get top-shelf quality in terms of looks and even personality. If I am going to go through hell or high water, I rather do it for some Slavic, Russian, other kinds of white girls that have that look, and even Jewish girls. You'd be surprised how common that look is among Anglos, some Northern Europeans, and even a lot of American girls of mixed heritage groups.

Gentlemen, learn from @In2theGame the real lesson, man got himself a Russian girl with those Irina Shayk/hot exotic brunette looks. Don't go looking for quality in cultures that are trash for game and producing hot girls, you'll only find trash at best and have invested a lot of time in doing it.

If I had a strong strong urge for black haired white girls, the Italians are the last group I would be looking at. Imagine the amount of mental health and insecurities that thing must have knowing her blonde sisters are being more sought after than her.
Appreciate the kind words man.

I was never much into the Guido type girls, although I've seen them look good but never spiked my interest that much. Some girls were pretty hot though but I dunno, I guess it depended on how I was feeling. If i was really into those types, you most likely would of found me down in New Jersey's Seaside Heights (Jersey Shore) but It never interested me in going down there.

Sometimes the appeal of having a very b*tchy Woman become very soft and submissive was a big turn on for me and I've had my share of those. It's all just a facade because once you break through that "tough girl" barrier, they're just as soft as any other girl. In fact i'll go as far as to say those type of Women, if they fully submit, will be very protective of you and caring as crazy as that sounds.
 
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Appreciate the kind words man.

I was never much into the Guido type girls, although I've seen them look good but never spiked my interest that much. Some girls were pretty hot though but I dunno, I guess it depended on how I was feeling. If i was really into those types, you most likely would of found me down in New Jersey's Seaside Heights (Jersey Shore) but It never interested me in going down there.

Sometimes the appeal of having a very b*tchy Woman become very soft and submissive was a big turn on for me and I've had my share of those. It's all just a facade because once you break through that "tough girl" barrier, they're just as soft as any other girl. In fact i'll go as far as to say those type of Women, if they fully submit, will be very protective of you and caring as crazy as that sounds.
And if they turn on you, they will treat you worse than the rest of the world.
 

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And if they turn on you, they will treat you worse than the rest of the world.
Well thats the risk lol they will for sure turn your life into Hell but I would never want to engage into a long term relationship with them. For casual fun, sure.
 
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Well thats the risk lol they will for sure turn your life into Hell but I would never want to engage into a long term relationship with them. For casual fun, sure.
YEP. That's what I was saying. That default "bytch" mode is what almost everyone gets. Underneath it while she "likes" you may be a softer interior. When she gets mad or turns on you, she will tear you up. They spend years effing with a persons life.
 

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We probably look around the same [USER=24252]@In2theGame
but I notice that I clean up with white girls who are the following:
  • Blonde or light-haired (Gingers especially)
  • If brunette then UNMISTAKABLY white and not even ethnic looking in the slightest
  • Pale skin with freckles
I won't be surprised if that is who you do well with.
Here's an example of the type's i usually went for. This was taken at a bar in midtown Manhattan, I told my friend to take a picture of us and when he was about to, I just grabbed her and started making out with her. Long story short, I was pounding that pvssy out later that night. Hot blonde with blue eyes and massive natural t*ts. She was a great girl and we had some good times. The sex was always fantastic and overall lasted for 3 years as a plate.

You can see i'm pretty dark with black hair and she was white with blonde hair / blue eyes.
 

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YEP. That's what I was saying. That default "bytch" mode is what almost everyone gets. Underneath it while she "likes" you may be a softer interior. When she gets mad or turns on you, she will tear you up. They spend years effing with a persons life.
I have a friend who had a girlfriend like that years ago, He grew grey hairs at the age of 30 lol.
 

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I have a friend who had a girlfriend like that years ago, He grew grey hairs at the age of 30 lol.
Quite a few of those guys dated and were married to straight up hell raisers. Many lose their hair or get greys. Do you think that's healthy for the "power" dynamic between a couple for her to realize she issued enough manipulations to turn your hair grey?
 

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I said the guido part as a euphemism for Italian women that look stereotypically Italian in terms of features: dark hair, tanned skin, and dark eyes. As an Asian guy myself, I notice I have far better luck with blondes and pale white girls from the get go but I think over the years that has slowly lost its appeal for me. I mean I still get with blondes time and time again but in this day and age, it's too easy if you are a darker dude of any kind that looks good. My theory is that blondes or women who dye their hair blonde seek attention and so they would do something taboo like going for a minority.

I know you said your girlfriend is a dark haired Russian chick but I am genuinely curious since you said you do well with Russian and Italian chicks, how have you done with ones who were swarthy and darker in general? Have you pounded any of that tanned ***** meat lol
 
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