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I wanted to create a list of women that need to be avoided at all costs in order for a man to live a healthy sane life, here is my list:

1. Women with excessive tattoos, this also includes women with skillrex haircuts. Any women that does weird stuff to make herself look like a clown.

Truly damaged for the most part, likely into some weird stuff and mental problems you can write a novel on. A lot of them run with some sketch people and you can count on most being into feminism or the manhating types. Not the hottest but begging for attention most of the times. Be weary!

I don't think there is any exception to this rule, avoid these women.

2. Single moms.

Does this really need much explanation?

3. Women with a history of mental health problems or any woman that casually brings up rape.

Women who have been through traumatic stuff will generally talk about it once they REALLY know you, if she talks about in a casual way, run the other way yourself. These types of women are a false accusation waiting to happen, cover yourself and run the other way!

4. Women who regularly bleach and dye their hair, especially weird colors.

Same with skillrex haircut women, they are looking for extra attention they did not regularly receive and are damaged on the inside. Avoid these women, most are bound to have daddy issues and do anything for attention.

5. White-washed ethnic women with excessive self-hatred.

This is especially true if she is Asian, Indian and Middle Eastern. Most women who have excessive self-hatred have a ton of mental health issues that will manifest later on in the relationship. I have countless white friends who married a white-washed Asian girl thinking they were getting the best deal, these were the same guys that were wrecked in that relationship and stressed like no one's business. The happiest white guys I knew who married ethnic women married the ones that were secure in themselves or the foreign ones.

6. Italian women (of any kind).

Italian women are truly the worst of the worst, it is why Italian men are thirsty for men women from other countries. Does not matter if she is Italian from NYC or Italian from Sicily, Italian women are a bundle of short tempers, narcissism, mental health issues and sociopathy. Learn from Italian men, avoid Italian women at all costs, they are a mess.
 

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6. Italian women (of any kind).

Italian women are truly the worst of the worst, it is why Italian men are thirsty for men women from other countries. Does not matter if she is Italian from NYC or Italian from Sicily, Italian women are a bundle of short tempers, narcissism, mental health issues and sociopathy. Learn from Italian men, avoid Italian women at all costs, they are a mess.
Can confirm.
 

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Can confirm.
I can toooo. It all makes sense now if you all have a consensus. I was puzzled last year with an Italian one. I thought it might be ME that she went mental on me, but no it was her I see now. Of course, I let her know how sh!t she was, cause my frame as always was still strong and out of the 100s of other women I knew it couldn't be ME, just her, and she was Italian so now I see.
 

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Add redheads to that mix. Don't ask how I know this....
 

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This is absolutely bizarre!
Now I know why that other member blocked you.

With these disqualifications, you are basically searching for a bland, plain-Jane, cookie cutter looking church chick.
Half the list is bad I agree, but the other half is just plain stupid.
 
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And all in good fun! Lighten up my friend.
 

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I wanted to create a list of women that need to be avoided at all costs in order for a man to live a healthy sane life, here is my list:

1. Women with excessive tattoos, this also includes women with skillrex haircuts. Any women that does weird stuff to make herself look like a clown.

Truly damaged for the most part, likely into some weird stuff and mental problems you can write a novel on. A lot of them run with some sketch people and you can count on most being into feminism or the manhating types. Not the hottest but begging for attention most of the times. Be weary!

I don't think there is any exception to this rule, avoid these women.

2. Single moms.

Does this really need much explanation?

3. Women with a history of mental health problems or any woman that casually brings up rape.

Women who have been through traumatic stuff will generally talk about it once they REALLY know you, if she talks about in a casual way, run the other way yourself. These types of women are a false accusation waiting to happen, cover yourself and run the other way!

4. Women who regularly bleach and dye their hair, especially weird colors.

Same with skillrex haircut women, they are looking for extra attention they did not regularly receive and are damaged on the inside. Avoid these women, most are bound to have daddy issues and do anything for attention.

5. White-washed ethnic women with excessive self-hatred.

This is especially true if she is Asian, Indian and Middle Eastern. Most women who have excessive self-hatred have a ton of mental health issues that will manifest later on in the relationship. I have countless white friends who married a white-washed Asian girl thinking they were getting the best deal, these were the same guys that were wrecked in that relationship and stressed like no one's business. The happiest white guys I knew who married ethnic women married the ones that were secure in themselves or the foreign ones.

6. Italian women (of any kind).

Italian women are truly the worst of the worst, it is why Italian men are thirsty for men women from other countries. Does not matter if she is Italian from NYC or Italian from Sicily, Italian women are a bundle of short tempers, narcissism, mental health issues and sociopathy. Learn from Italian men, avoid Italian women at all costs, they are a mess.
Why are single moms part of this list?
 

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Can confirm.
Is this why they grow chest hairs and mustaches? I heard in the Army some of the females grow beards and goatees and some of the NCO's are "fearful" to say anything to them about it. I'm very confident a woman remaining deep in masculine space raises her test levels, and thus gets some nice MANLY hairs to go with it. She earned her stache!
 

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I will say there are plenty of single moms that are dateable. There are crazy ones just like there are with single childless women who are crazy too. Not sure I would completely throw them into this category of not being dateable. Regardless they can make great plates.

I would add the following to the mix for the un-dateable groups-

1.) Passive aggressive women-
My personality/character is a major conflict with a passive aggressive woman. It simply doesnt work and I have broken things off with more than one of them. If there is an issue in a LTR I expect to be able to talk about it, come to a resolution and move on. When a woman wants to pout around for days over something stupid that is thrown up in my face literally days/weeks after the fact, its GTFO and deuces. I cant do it.....I wont do it.

2.) Manipulative to get her way-
When they cant break my frame they get shytty acting and manipulative. Well, sorry chick, but my frame is more solid than your manipulation tactics will ever be.

3.) Passive altogether- there are those that make the world go round and those that watch the world go round. I am a driven person that goes after what I want and failure isnt an option when I set my sights on accomplishing something. I cant stand someone that literally just "takes" what life gives them and then b!tches about it after they made ZERO effort to dictate the outcome. Motion creates emotion. I like do'ers not watchers/complainers.

I just dropped a doctor I was seeing for almost 5 months because of the above 3 things. She would literally just take shyte by the bucket fulls from certain people and then get all mad when she couldnt break my frame. Continue to pout for days over stupid shyte and then super p!ssed when I didnt budge and be very manipulative. Once she saw that I wouldnt budge she would come back and apologize and try to make amends. Its just a vicious cycle that never ends and I dont have time for that.

When you hear the following, you should put them on the back burner or move on:

*If you really loved me you would understand
*If you really loved me you would (whatever it is she wanted to manipulate you into doing). My response to this is always "Yeah but I love myself more and I just dont want to do that so I'm not going to do it"
*Well there really isnt anything that I can do about it (when there clearly is to remedy a situation)
*Well OK then (after you dont budge on their stupid requests)
 

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Can confirm.
Tell me about it, truly the worst of the worst out there. I genuinely understand now why Italian men are so thirsty for women of other nationalities and races as well as why they tend to make for massive sex tourists in a lot of Europe. Italian women deserve to die lonely and any man worth his mind would avoid them like the plague.

The ones from Italy are pretty bad but the ones in the US? Well there is a reason a lot of Northeastern cities outside of NYC suck for dating. The only reason NYC is good is because of Brooklyn and Manhattan bringing in fresh out of college grads. Avoid all other places like the plague.

Italian women are also the most narcissistic ethnicity of women out there, that demographic is loaded with sociopaths.
 
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I will say there are plenty of single moms that are dateable. There are crazy ones just like there are with single childless women who are crazy too. Not sure I would completely throw them into this category of not being dateable. Regardless they can make great plates.

I would add the following to the mix for the un-dateable groups-

1.) Passive aggressive women-
My personality/character is a major conflict with a passive aggressive woman. It simply doesnt work and I have broken things off with more than one of them. If there is an issue in a LTR I expect to be able to talk about it, come to a resolution and move on. When a woman wants to pout around for days over something stupid that is thrown up in my face literally days/weeks after the fact, its GTFO and deuces. I cant do it.....I wont do it.

2.) Manipulative to get her way-
When they cant break my frame they get shytty acting and manipulative. Well, sorry chick, but my frame is more solid than your manipulation tactics will ever be.

3.) Passive altogether- there are those that make the world go round and those that watch the world go round. I am a driven person that goes after what I want and failure isnt an option when I set my sights on accomplishing something. I cant stand someone that literally just "takes" what life gives them and then b!tches about it after they made ZERO effort to dictate the outcome. Motion creates emotion. I like do'ers not watchers/complainers.

I just dropped a doctor I was seeing for almost 5 months because of the above 3 things. She would literally just take shyte by the bucket fulls from certain people and then get all mad when she couldnt break my frame. Continue to pout for days over stupid shyte and then super p!ssed when I didnt budge and be very manipulative. Once she saw that I wouldnt budge she would come back and apologize and try to make amends. Its just a vicious cycle that never ends and I dont have time for that.

When you hear the following, you should put them on the back burner or move on:

*If you really loved me you would understand
*If you really loved me you would (whatever it is she wanted to manipulate you into doing). My response to this is always "Yeah but I love myself more and I just dont want to do that so I'm not going to do it"
*Well there really isnt anything that I can do about it (when there clearly is to remedy a situation)
*Well OK then (after you dont budge on their stupid requests)
What about a respect violation "I said I'm sorry, get over it?"
 

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6. Italian women (of any kind).

Italian women are truly the worst of the worst, it is why Italian men are thirsty for men women from other countries. Does not matter if she is Italian from NYC or Italian from Sicily, Italian women are a bundle of short tempers, narcissism, mental health issues and sociopathy. Learn from Italian men, avoid Italian women at all costs, they are a mess.
Agreed as well. They are batsh!t crazy. Especially the ones from NJ or NYC.
 

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Women with a victim mentality.

Easy to spot after a brief conversation. They bring up the past a lot. They blame people and circumstances from their past for
why their life is not working the way they would like it to be today.

They bytch and moan about ex's and even about friends that "screwed them over".

They will "confide" in you while things seem to be going well (the honeymoon period) but you will soon do something that will
slight them and you will be enemy number one.

Unforgiving. Will seek revenge.
 
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6. Italian women (of any kind).

Italian women are truly the worst of the worst, it is why Italian men are thirsty for men women from other countries. Does not matter if she is Italian from NYC or Italian from Sicily, Italian women are a bundle of short tempers, narcissism, mental health issues and sociopathy. Learn from Italian men, avoid Italian women at all costs, they are a mess.
Interesting. Not a whole lot of experience with Italians. But their mediterranean neighbors, yes..

Spanish women.....from Spain. Spain is a very feminist polluted country.

Puzzy has a huge price and many willing "betas" ready to pay that price thus elevating it. Prostitution is normal and many
will pay their way through university by selling their puzzy.

they have an unconstitutional law: la ley contra la violencia de genero (basically violence against gender.......but it only includes the
female gender. Which means the female gender is protected under this law and not the male)

What does it mean? it means there are so many "denuncias falsas", where she gets you charged when you've done nothing........who's side
is the law on? well that's clear by the actual law. It means if she gets pissed off at you she can ring the police and under this law you
will be arrested without being questioned.

What has this done? corrupted so many Spanish women.

An example: seeing this Spanish girl and because of my apparent "lack of interest" (seriously I didn't like holding hands and she interpreted that as a lack of interest) she called me a "maltratador" (an abuser). Simply because she was not being treated the way she expected to be treated...

What has it done to a lot of Spanish men? White knight city......
 
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I am attracting Italian American women and dark haired white women in general in droves, like they make up about 80% of my matches on dating apps and are the main girls to get aggressive with me when I am out. Most I have known and been with have been really psychotic but they can f*ck for days, nymphos to the extreme, have not known any other group of women with a sex drive that can go on for days.

At one point, smashed this Italian cougar in her 30s and she kept me in bed for the whole day, almost losing her cool every time I tried to slip out. Ended up laying in bed with her nude for the entire day and had to make up an excuse for emergency at my place to get out of there, then she tried to tag along but had to tell her to stay. So happy she doesn't know where I live, that thing was a sex fiend!!!!

Weird part is I hear Italian Americans are supposed to be really f*ckin racist too but I am not even white. Been with a few women who say racist sh*t as I smash, its a weird mind trick....

I'll say this one thing about Italian American women though, they are very aggressive when chasing after guys.

The only ethnicity I find to be just as aggressive when chasing men are black women. Black women and darker featured white women (especially Italian) are so straightforward when going after guys that you have to tell them no many times and they'll still keep chasing.

I recently took part in a co-ed group acting class full of people in their 20s and there is this one Italian chick from Massachusetts in it, looks a lot like the girl who played Wonder Woman. Cannot get this chick off of me whenever I am in class, unable to speak with or game other girls without her constantly calling me out on it and then she gets closer to me. A few weeks ago she put her foot close to my face as I was sitting down and gave me that seductive "come get me" look, ignored her and she just laughed it off.

Worst part is this always happen when I am chasing after women I am actually attracted to (blondes and redheads).

Almost every time I try to game a blonde at a bar or in an activity, her dark haired friend comes along to game me and the blonde just slips out.

When I am horny and desperate I settle for what I can get and given that I can get quality in looks from this group (slim and cute face), I keep smashing.
 

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Agreed as well. They are batsh!t crazy. Especially the ones from NJ or NYC.
The trash that happens in NYC is because of the high Italian population. Parts of NJ and NYC that are hostile generally have a ton of Italians, it is what makes Long Island and Staten Island as sh*tholes of the city.

Go to Manhattan or some trendy parts of Brooklyn inhabited by younger WASPy whites and westernized Asians, they are so pleasant and the women are so awesome. Italians generally ruin everything because they are short-tempered, driven by a massive ego and the most narcissistic people on the entire planet.

Italian women are not only unpleasant to look at for the most part but they tend to be just as ugly on the inside.
 

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Interesting. Not a whole lot of experience with Italians. But their mediterranean neighbors, yes..

Spanish women.....from Spain. Spain is a very feminist polluted country.

Puzzy has a huge price and many willing "betas" ready to pay that price thus elevating it. Prostitution is normal and many
will pay their way through university by selling their puzzy.

they have an unconstitutional law: la ley contra la violencia de genero (basically violence against gender.......but it only includes the
female gender. Which means the female gender is protected under this law and not the male)

What does it mean? it means there are so many "denuncias falsas", where she gets you charged when you've done nothing........who's side
is the law on? well that's clear by the actual law. It means if she gets pissed off at you she can ring the police and under this law you
will be arrested without being questioned.

What has this done? corrupted so many Spanish women.

An example: seeing this Spanish girl and because of my apparent "lack of interest" (seriously I didn't like holding hands and she interpreted that as a lack of interest) she called me a "maltratador" (an abuser). Simply because she was not being treated the way she expected to be treated...

What has it done to a lot of Spanish men? White knight city......
I will never get why western media pedestalizes Mediterranean men so much, maybe its because they want that part of the world to feel good about something since those countries are generally the poorest. Then again, this whole Mediterranean male worship started happening decades ago and has died down.

From my very own experience, the white men I have seen slay the most poon were Nordic and Northern European. Women are crazy for blond men these days, especially Mediterranean women, blond men slay like crazy in Spain and Italy. Then again, minorities get a break too because we get to slay in Scandinavia and those women are the finest in all of Europe.
 

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The trash that happens in NYC is because of the high Italian population. Parts of NJ and NYC that are hostile generally have a ton of Italians, it is what makes Long Island and Staten Island as sh*tholes of the city.

Go to Manhattan or some trendy parts of Brooklyn inhabited by younger WASPy whites and westernized Asians, they are so pleasant and the women are so awesome. Italians generally ruin everything because they are short-tempered, driven by a massive ego and the most narcissistic people on the entire planet.

Italian women are not only unpleasant to look at for the most part but they tend to be just as ugly on the inside.
Not sure I agree with them looking unpleasant, as I find them very attractive if they take care of themselves (that usually stops after marriage). However, their true nature and personality shows through after a year or so.Going to throw in Jewish women in the NY/NJ/CT area as well. They are nearly identical to the Italians; except for the religious thing. I swear, sometimes I cannot tell the difference between Jewish women and Italian women if they do not have tats (which is an immediate X in my book or wear a cross). However, very high maintenance; similar to Italians.
 
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