"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Women smell nice to us; do we smell nice to them?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
I've very very rarely worn cologne over the past year. Just shower and deodorant. The three girls over this period have loved my scent and told me so. Also when ever they've been around me after i come from gym they always come and hug on me.kingsam said:
My ex sent me a text one day. something along the lines of "I totally smell like your stink, and its SOOOO good!"
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
I use a mixture of expensive & cheap cologne... 1) davidoff's Cool Water, and 2) Bod, in the black bottle... $7 from wallmart. they love it.
I will even put some on my upper lip and cheecks so when they lean in to chat with me, they smell it.
HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
At first i was "troll", but on second thoughts it made sense. When i sweat my groin has a very characteristic smell that somewhat differs from the normal smell of sweat.kyokon said:
I also remember a guy from high school who always smelled sweaty but for some reason i couldnt comprehend the girls liked him. At some point he stopped stinking (i guess he started taking showers regularly) and about that time he lost all the girl attention he was getting.
P.S. I did a post history on you kyokon and i must say your posts are quite solid. Keep it up!
lorekeeper
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Honestly, probably my only plus at this point.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I am sure that before cloths and proper hygiene came into affect that the odors from our bodies and crotches was a big factor in attracting a mate as opposed to today.