"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Women smell nice to us; do we smell nice to them?
- Thread starter Vitanoid
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
I've very very rarely worn cologne over the past year. Just shower and deodorant. The three girls over this period have loved my scent and told me so. Also when ever they've been around me after i come from gym they always come and hug on me.kingsam said:
My ex sent me a text one day. something along the lines of "I totally smell like your stink, and its SOOOO good!"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
I use a mixture of expensive & cheap cologne... 1) davidoff's Cool Water, and 2) Bod, in the black bottle... $7 from wallmart. they love it.
I will even put some on my upper lip and cheecks so when they lean in to chat with me, they smell it.
HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
At first i was "troll", but on second thoughts it made sense. When i sweat my groin has a very characteristic smell that somewhat differs from the normal smell of sweat.kyokon said:
I also remember a guy from high school who always smelled sweaty but for some reason i couldnt comprehend the girls liked him. At some point he stopped stinking (i guess he started taking showers regularly) and about that time he lost all the girl attention he was getting.
P.S. I did a post history on you kyokon and i must say your posts are quite solid. Keep it up!
lorekeeper
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Honestly, probably my only plus at this point.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I am sure that before cloths and proper hygiene came into affect that the odors from our bodies and crotches was a big factor in attracting a mate as opposed to today.