Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I've very very rarely worn cologne over the past year. Just shower and deodorant. The three girls over this period have loved my scent and told me so. Also when ever they've been around me after i come from gym they always come and hug on me.kingsam said:chicks respond very well to good fragrance on a man...
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
At first i was "troll", but on second thoughts it made sense. When i sweat my groin has a very characteristic smell that somewhat differs from the normal smell of sweat.kyokon said:my ex used to like smelling my sweaty balls. sometimes she would kneel in the bathroom doorway so I couldn't get in for a shower unless I went through her 'ball-sniffing checkpoint'....
I think girls know we stink, they're just used to it and have come to expect it.I've very very rarely worn cologne over the past year. Just shower and deodorant. The three girls over this period have loved my scent and told me so. Also when ever they've been around me after i come from gym they always come and hug on me.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.