"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Women smell nice to us; do we smell nice to them?
- Thread starter Vitanoid
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
I've very very rarely worn cologne over the past year. Just shower and deodorant. The three girls over this period have loved my scent and told me so. Also when ever they've been around me after i come from gym they always come and hug on me.kingsam said:
My ex sent me a text one day. something along the lines of "I totally smell like your stink, and its SOOOO good!"
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
I use a mixture of expensive & cheap cologne... 1) davidoff's Cool Water, and 2) Bod, in the black bottle... $7 from wallmart. they love it.
I will even put some on my upper lip and cheecks so when they lean in to chat with me, they smell it.
HariPoter13
Senior Don Juan
At first i was "troll", but on second thoughts it made sense. When i sweat my groin has a very characteristic smell that somewhat differs from the normal smell of sweat.kyokon said:
I also remember a guy from high school who always smelled sweaty but for some reason i couldnt comprehend the girls liked him. At some point he stopped stinking (i guess he started taking showers regularly) and about that time he lost all the girl attention he was getting.
P.S. I did a post history on you kyokon and i must say your posts are quite solid. Keep it up!
lorekeeper
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Honestly, probably my only plus at this point.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I am sure that before cloths and proper hygiene came into affect that the odors from our bodies and crotches was a big factor in attracting a mate as opposed to today.