Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What the hell?Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
most men prefer tall guys on the level of physical attraction. I am living proof of that.
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True with many women, real women though will instead love it when a guy can take the reigns and be the leader. My girl and many of my female friends (LuvMyArmyMan being one of them) are like that. But then again, I tend not to associate with feminists.Originally posted by trevor2003
This is a GREAT thread!!!
My take is that women have a strong desire to be in control of the relationship, and get scared/intimidated when they meet a man who has more power than they do!
They may be attracted to the Top Dogs but will settle down with the average chump because they want a husband they can pu$$y-whip. They want to be able to drive around in their husbands SUV's and gossip with their female friends while their husbands are at work! All the while laughing about how great it is to have a husband/or steady boyfriend who will do anything to please her!
This is a great thread! Keep it going!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Imposter!Originally posted by Spike_Tha_Cowboy
Women usually say they prefer my smaller manhood because it hurts less when we do it.
Never mind the rest I speak the truth.Originally posted by Spike_Tha_Cowboy
Women usually say they prefer my smaller manhood because it hurts less when we do it.
What I saidOriginally posted by Spike_Tha_Cowboy
Women usually say they prefer my smaller manhood because it hurts less when we do it.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Where does this thread mention marriage in the previous posts?Originally posted by Unregistered
Who wants to marry women, anyways? I would rather make monkey love.
Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
Geez, Years ago a study showed that during time of ovalation, women wanted the rugged "macho" male (good genes) and the rest of the time they wanted the softer "provider".
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.