She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What the hell?Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
most men prefer tall guys on the level of physical attraction. I am living proof of that.
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True with many women, real women though will instead love it when a guy can take the reigns and be the leader. My girl and many of my female friends (LuvMyArmyMan being one of them) are like that. But then again, I tend not to associate with feminists.Originally posted by trevor2003
This is a GREAT thread!!!
My take is that women have a strong desire to be in control of the relationship, and get scared/intimidated when they meet a man who has more power than they do!
They may be attracted to the Top Dogs but will settle down with the average chump because they want a husband they can pu$$y-whip. They want to be able to drive around in their husbands SUV's and gossip with their female friends while their husbands are at work! All the while laughing about how great it is to have a husband/or steady boyfriend who will do anything to please her!
This is a great thread! Keep it going!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Imposter!Originally posted by Spike_Tha_Cowboy
Women usually say they prefer my smaller manhood because it hurts less when we do it.
Never mind the rest I speak the truth.Originally posted by Spike_Tha_Cowboy
Women usually say they prefer my smaller manhood because it hurts less when we do it.
What I saidOriginally posted by Spike_Tha_Cowboy
Women usually say they prefer my smaller manhood because it hurts less when we do it.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Where does this thread mention marriage in the previous posts?Originally posted by Unregistered
Who wants to marry women, anyways? I would rather make monkey love.
Originally posted by Good_ol_boy
Geez, Years ago a study showed that during time of ovalation, women wanted the rugged "macho" male (good genes) and the rest of the time they wanted the softer "provider".
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.