Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I was offered that a few times, I never cared for it. Though, I probably should had taken a few up to cover the short dry spells I had when I had to go back looking for new meat, I mean ladies. Something in me just loses all respect for them when they suggest FWB, I just walk. I find it even more hilarious when they reach out months later with the standard "Hey, How are you".
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Six months?! That's nuts! I just take my time to screen a bit, usually a month, month and a half. I just want to know who I am getting involved with, who they really are. Six months seems abusive.
Yes, this how you find out how and what ladies real feelings and actions are. Gee, and I wonder why we have such a wide spread of STDs and now two nearly incurable ones (this is a reason why I've given up FWBs. Just too dangerous).
Yeah they get married young. But like you said past a certain age it’s not happening with those girls. They marry guys closer to their age who are also virgins and are also Mormons of course.
In her defense, she's very attractive. She shown me her phone and soo many orbiters... It's unreal. We had arguments about it. She would actually put her phone on airplane mode when we went to sleep. I didn't understand until the next morning when she was downstairs making some food for us.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I'm not wasting my time on a man, without sex, for six months. That's ridiculous. If I'm hanging around him, it's for a reason, and that reason is NOT to prolong my celibacy!
Many ladies use sex as a weapon. You ladies many not realize it, but that's why a lot of men hang around. One the few I walked away from, they all chased, but I already lost respect so I kept on walking. No one will control me.
Yeah, I don't disagree. I've known women who use sex to get what they want from men. If that is attention, they will string them along. Sometimes they do it in retaliation, because they feel wronged by the guy/a guy. Sometimes (rarely from what I have seen, but that's just my world) it's done for sport. Sometimes it occurs out of pure anxiety (surrounding actually having sex) (issues). It happens. There's always feelings, good, bad or ugly, wrapped up in the behavior. That's why you preach not to be an orbitor. Good advice.
Its useless from a male perspective.
The difference is that in most cases (if the girl is attractive), the guy is going to want to have sex with the girl. I agree it's a double standard though.
True, but they do attempt to turn the lovers into providers. One lady told me we couldn't continue on exclusively because, I sh!t you not, if we were to get married, I'd want her to work. Also, because I'm the type of guy who'd want her to contribute financially. But, we can continue to see each other while she finds a man than would. I nexted her. So, yes, they want the provider for long term survival, but they do try to turn the lover into a lover and provider. Not too sure if that's successful with any though. It's two completely different ways of looking at life.
It's not really a fantasy for her if it's true.
Biggest turn off, those women are only good for pump and dump.
I think you hit the nail with coping by taking vare of children.
I'm sure they just get used to it. Probably kind of like dealing with a low level depression.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
