Women Love Orbiters But Isn't It A Waste of Their Time?

[mrgoodstuff]

True, but I've never orbited nor am I gay. It just goes in my mind that if she's fvcking me, who else is she fvcking? Rather not play that game in this point of my life, so I walk. In my 20's and early 30's, yes, I'd play around. Going to be 38 soon. Tired of the merry-go-round and games.

Understood

 

[RickTheToad]

Most attention whors aren't instagram models.

You do realize that AJ is a lady, not a man. Right? Someone else in another thread called AJ a man. Unless she's transgendered, AJ is lady with lady parts; not some Caitlin Jenner man made thing.

 

[AJ84]

You do realize that AJ is a lady, not a man. Right? Someone else in another thread called AJ a man. Unless she's transgendered, AJ is lady with lady parts; not some Caitlin Jenner man made thing.

I’m not sure if I’m allowed to say ‘straight woman’ anymore but yes, I’m a binary cisgender female.

 

[lamath]

I’m not sure if I’m allowed to say ‘straight woman’ anymore but yes, I’m a binary cisgender female.

it is getting ridiculous i blame Trudeau.

 

[zekko]

it is getting ridiculous i blame Trudeau.

It's worse in the States, so it's not just him.

 

[lamath]

It's worse in the States, so it's not just him.

Its overcompensation imo we use to reject anyone different now we got to accept everyone even when its clearly a mental health issue.

 

[sazc]

Women have men they use for sex only also.... I don't understand the desperate need to create a false equivalency.

Yes, been there before. Never cared to be treated as just a tool.

I don't doubt that this happens, I've never seen it firsthand, in my group of friends.

The girlfriend's who claim to have no emotional investment, always end up emotionally invested, and get hurt because if their denial of the real situation. It's incredible to watch.... "He's a good lay, I'm just in it for the sex" to "a$$hole was sleeping with my best friend and 4other girls, men are pigs"

I just SMFH

 

[sazc]

I’m not sure if I’m allowed to say ‘straight woman’ anymore but yes, I’m a binary cisgender female.

Wut the fvk did you actually just say, lol
This makes my head hurt, and now I need a dictionary.....lmao

 

[mrgoodstuff]

True, but I've never orbited nor am I gay. It just goes in my mind that if she's fvcking me, who else is she fvcking? Rather not play that game in this point of my life, so I walk. In my 20's and early 30's, yes, I'd play around. Going to be 38 soon. Tired of the merry-go-round and games.

So how do we find a woman that values teamwork and powerful monogamy?

 

[sazc]

So how do we find a woman that values teamwork and powerful monogamy?

Here I am but y'all would dump me because I won't put out for a month or so (aka 'longer') - when I'm comfortable, have built trust with you, and know we are on the same page.

I'm just saying....

 

[lamath]

Here I am but y'all would dump me because I won't put out for a month or so (aka 'longer') - when I'm comfortable, have built trust with you, and know we are on the same page.

I'm just saying....

Its not what they say its what they do lollllll

But on a serious note that probably what most of us wish for. But even good things never last....

 

[RickTheToad]

So how do we find a woman that values teamwork and powerful monogamy?

In my opinion, a man has to marry them young before they start to explore their sexual desires with other people and keep a strong frame. If you live in Utah, and are a Mormon, you'd do well. For us, 30's and above, that ship has sailed. Seems the populous get tired and prefers short term relationships. Ladies start to test around the 3 - 5 month mark; and that can be a double edged sword. If you fail (give in), you're in her frame and she'll lose respect for you. You keep your frame and walk away, the relationship is over. She doesn't really care as she has a box of d!cks (her phone) in her pocket for new suitors to line up and replace you. She may come back in a few months, but aside from a few fvcks, the trust issues will prevent most for pair bonding.

It's a no win situation. Best bet is to enjoy your turn and stacking up resources.

 

[Trump]

A girl keeping an orbiter around for attention is like the male equivalent of a guy keeping a plate around just for sex: neither has any intention of investing in the orbiter or plate but they enjoy the feelings they get from those arrangement and they sure like the attention.

It’s not the same.

For orbiters it’s about feelings, for plates it’s about a logistical return. No plate is going to sleep with you because she “likes” you, she needs a substantial return.

I’m not going to get into a useless debate about how women are selfish and evil and men are loyal and honourable bc that view is complete BS. Both genders have the capacity to be douchbags, both have the capacity to be decent people. Women don’t have a jump on selfish behaviour, neither do men.

Disagree.

Women are practical and selfish before any other attribute and their natural inclination in life is to exploit the men around her. She cannot survive otherwise.

Some men and women use each other for good feelings and don’t offer much in return, because they don’t want more than that and they find people who let them use them.

If a man uses a woman for “good feelings” he is an idiot.

‘How did your date go with that actress Friday night?”
“Great.”
“What did you get? Makeout? Sex?”
“No bro, I got good feelings.”
“Sweet!”

That’s how some men and women are, but not all men and women are like this.

All men are not the same, but all women are. They are all selfish, biologically programmed that way.

 

[AJ84]

Wut the fvk did you actually just say, lol
This makes my head hurt, and now I need a dictionary.....lmao

Hahaha I actually work with someone who refers to straight people as cisgender. The first time I heard her say it in a meeting I had to google it like come on people lol. Jordan Peterson shakes his head at this crap.

 

[RickTheToad]

Here I am but y'all would dump me because I won't put out for a month or so (aka 'longer') - when I'm comfortable, have built trust with you, and know we are on the same page.

I'm just saying....

Yes, it's nice in theory, but most men with some self-worth wouldn't hang around. The last lady I was with gave it up third or forth date. She told me she's had men wait up to six months. I said that's crazy. Simps to the max. Men, in general, have become so thirsty and needy, they appear to hang around a lady for months just to get a possibility to be in her. You ladies... A class act. As a different former lady of mine said to me, you do you. So, to you, I tell you to do the same. Not sure how that helps build anything but animosity and playing games with someone's emotions.

 

[AJ84]

In my opinion, a man has to marry them young before they start to explore their sexual desires with other people and keep a strong frame. If you live in Utah, and are a Mormon, you'd do well. For us, 30's and above, that ship has sailed. Seems the populous get tired and prefers short term relationships. Ladies start to test around the 3 - 5 month mark; and that can be a double edged sword. If you fail (give in), you're in her frame and she'll lose respect for you. You keep your frame and walk away, the relationship is over. She doesn't really care as she has a box of d!cks (her phone) in her pocket for new suitors to line up and replace you. She may come back in a few months, but aside from a few fvcks, the trust issues will prevent most for pair bonding.

It's a no win situation. Best bet is to enjoy your turn and stacking up resources.

Doesn’t Utah have the highest rate of online porn viewers? I read that somewhere.

 

[ubercat]

To me plate spinning is a fair exchange. She gets the attention and fringe benefits. I get the sex and fringe benefits.

Like most things in life it's probably an 80/20 rule. Yes there are exceptions but it's a useful rule. And the exceptions get higher post wall sorry ladies opportunity cost.

Have a look here at the c0ck and wallet shopping here. Looks first money second beautiful soul 20th.

https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relati...a-life-of-oh-wells-not-what-if-s?pg=36&order=

 

[RickTheToad]

I’m not sure if I’m allowed to say ‘straight woman’ anymore but yes, I’m a binary cisgender female.

According to the bible, constitution, and the animal kingdom, there are only two genders; male and female. In some States in the USA, there are 37. We're falling faster than the Roman Empire.

 

[RickTheToad]

Doesn’t Utah have the highest rate of online porn viewers? I read that somewhere.

Not sure, but they are said to have the most marriages out of any US State (https://www.usatoday.com/picture-ga...s-where-the-most-people-are-married/39043631/).

 

[AJ84]

To me plate spinning is a fair exchange. She gets the attention and fringe benefits. I get the sex and fringe ben

Like most things in life it's probably an 80/20 rule. Yes there are exceptions but it's a useful rule. And the exceptions get higher post wall sorry ladies opportunity cost.

Have a look here at the c0ck and wallet shopping here. Looks first money second beautiful soul 20th.

https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relati...a-life-of-oh-wells-not-what-if-s?pg=36&order=

I think plate spinning can be a fair exchange when both have no interest in exclusivity, yeah. Don’t ask don’t tell and just have fun.