I hope this was sarcasmI don't see what the big deal is. Back in 2010 I had a long distance relationship (and again in 2015). You watch the same movie together and ou eat the same meal and you text each other. Girls find that extremely romantic.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I hope this was sarcasmI don't see what the big deal is. Back in 2010 I had a long distance relationship (and again in 2015). You watch the same movie together and ou eat the same meal and you text each other. Girls find that extremely romantic.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Strippers don't get child support and other financial settlements. ?? I dunno, just a guess. lolLol. You earn $180 per hour? Why are you wasting your time with Strippers?
That is gay as fvck...I don't see what the big deal is. Back in 2010 I had a long distance relationship (and again in 2015). You watch the same movie together and ou eat the same meal and you text each other. Girls find that extremely romantic.
Freudian slip? Bruuuuce!That is gay as fvck...
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
strippers are usually pretty hotLol. You earn $180 per hour? Why are you wasting your time with Strippers?
True but online dating you still met a human in the end and it could still lead to either another date oe sechs. Remote dating is a beta sucker being strung along by an uninterested girl who is using him either to pay for her groceries or using him for entertainment. No chance for sechs.As stupid as remote dating sounds, anyone else remembers when online dating seemed crazy?
I'm just going to smash my head into the desk a thousand times now.......I don't see what the big deal is.
I only make $165. I date beautiful women. Some are strippers because once you become a master seducer they are easy pickings for a man on the road.Lol. You earn $180 per hour? Why are you wasting your time with Strippers?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.