JdelaSilviera
Master Don Juan
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It is that simple. You only need to show that she doesn´t impress you and she´s yours.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
what happen...did the single mother from the corner bodega rejected your 3rd set of flowers?JdelaSilviera said:It is that simple. You only need to show that she doesn´t impress you and she´s yours.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Great post!Scars said:You're all wrong.
Woman fall in love with men who will never love them back.
It's okay to like them, I mean you have to show SOME attraction in order to keep her feelings consistent. But if you don't honestly love her then you will always have her. You can even say you love her, hundreds of times.. but if your ACTIONS don't prove this then you will always keep her chasing.
If you still treat her like a child, disapprove of her bad actions, and most importantly, always exercise the right to leave her at any given moment, then she will always love you.
Girls will always love and come back to that a-hole who treated them like sh!t. It's just programmed into their biology.
Another interesting fact is woman are even WILLING to share their partners provided he is a high status male. They would rather have a piece of the pie then none of it at all. They WILL forgive you when you cheat.
Pretty much the formula is, only show your lovey-dovey side when you want sex, or you fvcked up. That's always been my routine. This is assuming you already have an established relationship with a girl. Don't try this on any of your plates, unless of course she has proven to have a high IL in you, and it's been consistent for more than 2+ months.
Nice vibe... you are one of those that need some serious medical help, aren´t you?Tiguere said:what happen...did the single mother from the corner bodega rejected your 3rd set of flowers?
Yep, what is even more interesting is that even if a woman doesn´t find a guy attractive in any sense her mind will be a complete mess when she realizes that he doesn´t care about her. I think that women tend to assume from the beginning that you have a romantic interest on them, they can´t be blamed though..f283000 said:Great post!![]()
The only problem is that doing what you say (being a dj in essence) is a fight withing ourselves. We know we should act as you say but we constantly have to fight our inner afc.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
unless you fvcken killed himf283000 said:We know we should act as you say but we constantly have to fight our inner afc.
Yeah, the reason this phenomenon occurs is that when you put a woman on a pedestal you are looking up at her. This means that you are putting yourself in a position where she has to look down on you. So you are essentially placing her at higher value than yourself. When she sees you are presenting yourself as lower value than her she will believe you and think "I can do better".I would change it to, "women love men who don't put them on pedestals."
Law 36
Disdain Things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best Revenge
By acknowledging a petty problem you give it existence and credibility. The more attention you pay an enemy, the stronger you make him; and a small mistake is often made worse and more visible when you try to fix it. It is sometimes best to leave things alone. If there is something you want but cannot have, show contempt for it. The less interest you reveal, the more superior you seem.
Thats the truth. PREACHbish0p said:I would change it to, "women love men who don't put them on pedestals."
I've gone up to plenty of women and used Rango Magami's line, "I like you, I want to get to know you better," and have hooked up with them.
Bottom line is, some women will like you and some won't no matter what you do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.