JdelaSilviera
Master Don Juan
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It is that simple. You only need to show that she doesn´t impress you and she´s yours.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what happen...did the single mother from the corner bodega rejected your 3rd set of flowers?JdelaSilviera said:It is that simple. You only need to show that she doesn´t impress you and she´s yours.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Great post!Scars said:You're all wrong.
Woman fall in love with men who will never love them back.
It's okay to like them, I mean you have to show SOME attraction in order to keep her feelings consistent. But if you don't honestly love her then you will always have her. You can even say you love her, hundreds of times.. but if your ACTIONS don't prove this then you will always keep her chasing.
If you still treat her like a child, disapprove of her bad actions, and most importantly, always exercise the right to leave her at any given moment, then she will always love you.
Girls will always love and come back to that a-hole who treated them like sh!t. It's just programmed into their biology.
Another interesting fact is woman are even WILLING to share their partners provided he is a high status male. They would rather have a piece of the pie then none of it at all. They WILL forgive you when you cheat.
Pretty much the formula is, only show your lovey-dovey side when you want sex, or you fvcked up. That's always been my routine. This is assuming you already have an established relationship with a girl. Don't try this on any of your plates, unless of course she has proven to have a high IL in you, and it's been consistent for more than 2+ months.
Nice vibe... you are one of those that need some serious medical help, aren´t you?Tiguere said:what happen...did the single mother from the corner bodega rejected your 3rd set of flowers?
Yep, what is even more interesting is that even if a woman doesn´t find a guy attractive in any sense her mind will be a complete mess when she realizes that he doesn´t care about her. I think that women tend to assume from the beginning that you have a romantic interest on them, they can´t be blamed though..f283000 said:Great post!![]()
The only problem is that doing what you say (being a dj in essence) is a fight withing ourselves. We know we should act as you say but we constantly have to fight our inner afc.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
unless you fvcken killed himf283000 said:We know we should act as you say but we constantly have to fight our inner afc.
Yeah, the reason this phenomenon occurs is that when you put a woman on a pedestal you are looking up at her. This means that you are putting yourself in a position where she has to look down on you. So you are essentially placing her at higher value than yourself. When she sees you are presenting yourself as lower value than her she will believe you and think "I can do better".I would change it to, "women love men who don't put them on pedestals."
Law 36
Disdain Things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best Revenge
By acknowledging a petty problem you give it existence and credibility. The more attention you pay an enemy, the stronger you make him; and a small mistake is often made worse and more visible when you try to fix it. It is sometimes best to leave things alone. If there is something you want but cannot have, show contempt for it. The less interest you reveal, the more superior you seem.
Thats the truth. PREACHbish0p said:I would change it to, "women love men who don't put them on pedestals."
I've gone up to plenty of women and used Rango Magami's line, "I like you, I want to get to know you better," and have hooked up with them.
Bottom line is, some women will like you and some won't no matter what you do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.