Women fall in love with men that don´t like them

[JdelaSilviera]

It is that simple. You only need to show that she doesn´t impress you and she´s yours.

 

[Ferdinand]

this is extremely hard to wrap my mind arround, it is part of a prominent theme in PUA that is contary to everything I have been taught to believe.

 

[bish0p]

I would change it to, "women love men who don't put them on pedestals."

I've gone up to plenty of women and used Rango Magami's line, "I like you, I want to get to know you better," and have hooked up with them.

Bottom line is, some women will like you and some won't no matter what you do.

 

[Tiguere]

It is that simple. You only need to show that she doesn´t impress you and she´s yours.

what happen...did the single mother from the corner bodega rejected your 3rd set of flowers?

 

[Scars]

You're all wrong.

Woman fall in love with men who will never love them back.

It's okay to like them, I mean you have to show SOME attraction in order to keep her feelings consistent. But if you don't honestly love her then you will always have her. You can even say you love her, hundreds of times.. but if your ACTIONS don't prove this then you will always keep her chasing.

If you still treat her like a child, disapprove of her bad actions, and most importantly, always exercise the right to leave her at any given moment, then she will always love you.

Girls will always love and come back to that a-hole who treated them like sh!t. It's just programmed into their biology.

Another interesting fact is woman are even WILLING to share their partners provided he is a high status male. They would rather have a piece of the pie then none of it at all. They WILL forgive you when you cheat.

Pretty much the formula is, only show your lovey-dovey side when you want sex, or you fvcked up. That's always been my routine. This is assuming you already have an established relationship with a girl. Don't try this on any of your plates, unless of course she has proven to have a high IL in you, and it's been consistent for more than 2+ months.

 

[thedude4242]

in all honesty there is no one formula you have to try different things out. because if there was one formula to get women you could have any of them. dont restrict yourself to an exact method, but use the fundamentals.

 

[judoguy]

the best quote i have ever read on this site was

"women fall in love with guys who bring them on emotional roller coasters"

I think it was pook who said it

 

[f283000]

You're all wrong.

Woman fall in love with men who will never love them back.

It's okay to like them, I mean you have to show SOME attraction in order to keep her feelings consistent. But if you don't honestly love her then you will always have her. You can even say you love her, hundreds of times.. but if your ACTIONS don't prove this then you will always keep her chasing.

If you still treat her like a child, disapprove of her bad actions, and most importantly, always exercise the right to leave her at any given moment, then she will always love you.

Girls will always love and come back to that a-hole who treated them like sh!t. It's just programmed into their biology.

Another interesting fact is woman are even WILLING to share their partners provided he is a high status male. They would rather have a piece of the pie then none of it at all. They WILL forgive you when you cheat.

Pretty much the formula is, only show your lovey-dovey side when you want sex, or you fvcked up. That's always been my routine. This is assuming you already have an established relationship with a girl. Don't try this on any of your plates, unless of course she has proven to have a high IL in you, and it's been consistent for more than 2+ months.

Great post!

The only problem is that doing what you say (being a dj in essence) is a fight withing ourselves. We know we should act as you say but we constantly have to fight our inner afc.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

what happen...did the single mother from the corner bodega rejected your 3rd set of flowers?

Nice vibe... you are one of those that need some serious medical help, aren´t you?

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Great post!

The only problem is that doing what you say (being a dj in essence) is a fight withing ourselves. We know we should act as you say but we constantly have to fight our inner afc.

Yep, what is even more interesting is that even if a woman doesn´t find a guy attractive in any sense her mind will be a complete mess when she realizes that he doesn´t care about her. I think that women tend to assume from the beginning that you have a romantic interest on them, they can´t be blamed though..

 

[comic_relief]

We know we should act as you say but we constantly have to fight our inner afc.

unless you fvcken killed him

- comic_relief

 

[zekko]

I would change it to, "women love men who don't put them on pedestals."

Yeah, the reason this phenomenon occurs is that when you put a woman on a pedestal you are looking up at her. This means that you are putting yourself in a position where she has to look down on you. So you are essentially placing her at higher value than yourself. When she sees you are presenting yourself as lower value than her she will believe you and think "I can do better".

The problem is that most guys see a hot chick and they think "oh wow, would I like to get to that level so I could get a girl like that". They're lost before they begin. Most guys do not realize their true value and lack confidence.

You have to have the mentality that you are higher value than the girl, that you are the Great Prize to be Won, and (as the OP said) she does not impress you. Why should you be impressed with her? She does not have your value. That sets up a completely different dynamic where you are not looking up at her and you can meet her and connect with her on an even playing field. Or better yet, she can be looking up at you.

 

[SeymourCake]

Let me post a law that was from "The 48 Laws Of Power"

Law 36

Disdain Things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best Revenge

By acknowledging a petty problem you give it existence and credibility. The more attention you pay an enemy, the stronger you make him; and a small mistake is often made worse and more visible when you try to fix it. It is sometimes best to leave things alone. If there is something you want but cannot have, show contempt for it. The less interest you reveal, the more superior you seem.

 

[maqnetik]

women love men who tell them "no"

 

[joe henny]

I would change it to, "women love men who don't put them on pedestals."

I've gone up to plenty of women and used Rango Magami's line, "I like you, I want to get to know you better," and have hooked up with them.

Bottom line is, some women will like you and some won't no matter what you do.

Thats the truth. PREACH