JdelaSilviera
Master Don Juan
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It is that simple. You only need to show that she doesn´t impress you and she´s yours.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
what happen...did the single mother from the corner bodega rejected your 3rd set of flowers?JdelaSilviera said:It is that simple. You only need to show that she doesn´t impress you and she´s yours.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Great post!Scars said:You're all wrong.
Woman fall in love with men who will never love them back.
It's okay to like them, I mean you have to show SOME attraction in order to keep her feelings consistent. But if you don't honestly love her then you will always have her. You can even say you love her, hundreds of times.. but if your ACTIONS don't prove this then you will always keep her chasing.
If you still treat her like a child, disapprove of her bad actions, and most importantly, always exercise the right to leave her at any given moment, then she will always love you.
Girls will always love and come back to that a-hole who treated them like sh!t. It's just programmed into their biology.
Another interesting fact is woman are even WILLING to share their partners provided he is a high status male. They would rather have a piece of the pie then none of it at all. They WILL forgive you when you cheat.
Pretty much the formula is, only show your lovey-dovey side when you want sex, or you fvcked up. That's always been my routine. This is assuming you already have an established relationship with a girl. Don't try this on any of your plates, unless of course she has proven to have a high IL in you, and it's been consistent for more than 2+ months.
Nice vibe... you are one of those that need some serious medical help, aren´t you?Tiguere said:what happen...did the single mother from the corner bodega rejected your 3rd set of flowers?
Yep, what is even more interesting is that even if a woman doesn´t find a guy attractive in any sense her mind will be a complete mess when she realizes that he doesn´t care about her. I think that women tend to assume from the beginning that you have a romantic interest on them, they can´t be blamed though..f283000 said:Great post!![]()
The only problem is that doing what you say (being a dj in essence) is a fight withing ourselves. We know we should act as you say but we constantly have to fight our inner afc.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
unless you fvcken killed himf283000 said:We know we should act as you say but we constantly have to fight our inner afc.
Yeah, the reason this phenomenon occurs is that when you put a woman on a pedestal you are looking up at her. This means that you are putting yourself in a position where she has to look down on you. So you are essentially placing her at higher value than yourself. When she sees you are presenting yourself as lower value than her she will believe you and think "I can do better".I would change it to, "women love men who don't put them on pedestals."
Law 36
Disdain Things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best Revenge
By acknowledging a petty problem you give it existence and credibility. The more attention you pay an enemy, the stronger you make him; and a small mistake is often made worse and more visible when you try to fix it. It is sometimes best to leave things alone. If there is something you want but cannot have, show contempt for it. The less interest you reveal, the more superior you seem.
Thats the truth. PREACHbish0p said:I would change it to, "women love men who don't put them on pedestals."
I've gone up to plenty of women and used Rango Magami's line, "I like you, I want to get to know you better," and have hooked up with them.
Bottom line is, some women will like you and some won't no matter what you do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.