JdelaSilviera
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It is that simple. You only need to show that she doesn´t impress you and she´s yours.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Women fall in love with men that don´t like them
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I would change it to, "women love men who don't put them on pedestals."
I've gone up to plenty of women and used Rango Magami's line, "I like you, I want to get to know you better," and have hooked up with them.
Bottom line is, some women will like you and some won't no matter what you do.
I've gone up to plenty of women and used Rango Magami's line, "I like you, I want to get to know you better," and have hooked up with them.
Bottom line is, some women will like you and some won't no matter what you do.
Scars
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You're all wrong.
Woman fall in love with men who will never love them back.
It's okay to like them, I mean you have to show SOME attraction in order to keep her feelings consistent. But if you don't honestly love her then you will always have her. You can even say you love her, hundreds of times.. but if your ACTIONS don't prove this then you will always keep her chasing.
If you still treat her like a child, disapprove of her bad actions, and most importantly, always exercise the right to leave her at any given moment, then she will always love you.
Girls will always love and come back to that a-hole who treated them like sh!t. It's just programmed into their biology.
Another interesting fact is woman are even WILLING to share their partners provided he is a high status male. They would rather have a piece of the pie then none of it at all. They WILL forgive you when you cheat.
Pretty much the formula is, only show your lovey-dovey side when you want sex, or you fvcked up. That's always been my routine. This is assuming you already have an established relationship with a girl. Don't try this on any of your plates, unless of course she has proven to have a high IL in you, and it's been consistent for more than 2+ months.
Woman fall in love with men who will never love them back.
It's okay to like them, I mean you have to show SOME attraction in order to keep her feelings consistent. But if you don't honestly love her then you will always have her. You can even say you love her, hundreds of times.. but if your ACTIONS don't prove this then you will always keep her chasing.
If you still treat her like a child, disapprove of her bad actions, and most importantly, always exercise the right to leave her at any given moment, then she will always love you.
Girls will always love and come back to that a-hole who treated them like sh!t. It's just programmed into their biology.
Another interesting fact is woman are even WILLING to share their partners provided he is a high status male. They would rather have a piece of the pie then none of it at all. They WILL forgive you when you cheat.
Pretty much the formula is, only show your lovey-dovey side when you want sex, or you fvcked up. That's always been my routine. This is assuming you already have an established relationship with a girl. Don't try this on any of your plates, unless of course she has proven to have a high IL in you, and it's been consistent for more than 2+ months.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
thedude4242
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in all honesty there is no one formula you have to try different things out. because if there was one formula to get women you could have any of them. dont restrict yourself to an exact method, but use the fundamentals.
judoguy
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the best quote i have ever read on this site was
"women fall in love with guys who bring them on emotional roller coasters"
I think it was pook who said it
"women fall in love with guys who bring them on emotional roller coasters"
I think it was pook who said it
JdelaSilviera
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Nice vibe... you are one of those that need some serious medical help, aren´t you?Tiguere said:
JdelaSilviera
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Yep, what is even more interesting is that even if a woman doesn´t find a guy attractive in any sense her mind will be a complete mess when she realizes that he doesn´t care about her. I think that women tend to assume from the beginning that you have a romantic interest on them, they can´t be blamed though..f283000 said:Great post!
The only problem is that doing what you say (being a dj in essence) is a fight withing ourselves. We know we should act as you say but we constantly have to fight our inner afc.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
comic_relief
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unless you fvcken killed himf283000 said:
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zekko
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Yeah, the reason this phenomenon occurs is that when you put a woman on a pedestal you are looking up at her. This means that you are putting yourself in a position where she has to look down on you. So you are essentially placing her at higher value than yourself. When she sees you are presenting yourself as lower value than her she will believe you and think "I can do better".
The problem is that most guys see a hot chick and they think "oh wow, would I like to get to that level so I could get a girl like that". They're lost before they begin. Most guys do not realize their true value and lack confidence.
You have to have the mentality that you are higher value than the girl, that you are the Great Prize to be Won, and (as the OP said) she does not impress you. Why should you be impressed with her? She does not have your value. That sets up a completely different dynamic where you are not looking up at her and you can meet her and connect with her on an even playing field. Or better yet, she can be looking up at you.
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Let me post a law that was from "The 48 Laws Of Power"
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.