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Male and female brains work very differently for a number of reasons. That's not necessarily a bad thing, we need to stop expecting women to behave exactly like men.
I tell you what... I will never allow myself to have my balls put in a vice(marriage/divorce court) with a being that only loves conditionally.
 

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Let's define love. I'm not defining love as a feeling. I'm saying love is a verb. To love something you must sacrifice for it. Women don't sacrifice for men. Only for children. So when she says she loves you...it means she loves how you make her FEEL.
 

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I tell you what... I will never allow myself to have my balls put in a vice(marriage/divorce court) with a being that only loves conditionally.
There is a gigantic world outside of the west, you could go to the Philippines where divorce is illegal or even an Islamic country that puts a tight leash on it's women.
Let's define love. I'm not defining love as a feeling. I'm saying love is a verb. To love something you must sacrifice for it. Women don't sacrifice for men. Only for children. So when she says she loves you...it means she loves how you make her FEEL.
Once again the way men and women love is very different, why are you expecting women to love men the exact same way?
 

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There is a gigantic world outside of the west, you could go to the Philippines where divorce is illegal or even an Islamic country that puts a tight leash on it's women.
You're the one looking to get married, not me.... Are you willing to do that?
 

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There is a gigantic world outside of the west, you could go to the Philippines where divorce is illegal or even an Islamic country that puts a tight leash on it's women.


Once again the way men and women love is very different, why are you expecting women to love men the exact same way?
Define love Zimbabwe. I think we are working with different definitions. I define it as sacrifice.
For example " God so loved the world he sent his only begotten son to DIE" death is sacrifice. Btw I'm not a religious person that's just an example.

Men love by working and providing for the family aka sacrifice. Men love by dying for their families.

Women can never love even though we use that word. It's really a misnomer when it's used for women. Women can only truly love children. Never men. No women will ever die for you. Don't ever confuse that.
 

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Define love Zimbabwe. I think we are working with different definitions. I define it as sacrifice.
For example " God so loved the world he sent his only begotten son to DIE" death is sacrifice. Btw I'm not a religious person that's just an example.

Men love by working and providing for the family aka sacrifice. Men love by dying for their families.

Women can never love even though we use that word. It's really a misnomer when it's used for women. Women can only truly love children. Never men. No women will ever die for you. Don't ever confuse that.
Firstly get rid of this Disney version of love, in reality nobody lives happily ever after. In a marriage or any relationship really, there is going to be a lot of ups and downs. It's not easy at all, it's extremely hard and it takes two people working together to make it work.

The mans role is to provide and protect his family, the woman's duty is to support and love her man. None of this equality nonsense that sounds like a buisness partnership instead of a real marriage.
 

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Firstly get rid of this Disney version of love, in reality nobody lives happily ever after. In a marriage or any relationship really, there is going to be a lot of ups and downs. It's not easy at all, it's extremely hard and it takes two people working together to make it work.

The mans role is to provide and protect his family, the woman's duty is to support and love her man. None of this equality nonsense that sounds like a buisness partnership instead of a real marriage.
Your response had nothing to do with what I wrote lol. Again, give me a working definition of love.

The famous qoute from a SS poster goes:
Men love women, women love children, and children love puppies is right .

Women CAN NOT love men. Not in any meaningful way. Their "love" is really just respect disguised as love. Stop arguing this.
 

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Your response had nothing to do with what I wrote lol. Again, give me a working definition of love.

The famous qoute from a SS poster goes:
Men love women, women love children, and children love puppies is right .

Women CAN NOT love men. Not in any meaningful way. Their "love" is really just respect disguised as love. Stop arguing this.
I stated before that women love in a very different way, stop expecting women to behave exactly the same way men do. There is not anything wrong with how they view love, if men did not provide society would fall apart.

If you really believe women cannot ever love you, then maybe right hand will make a better life companion.

Also you claim men love unconditionally, if your wife got morbidly Obese and you had hot women hitting you up every day. Would you still love your wife?
 
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I stated before that women love in a very different way, stop expecting women to behave exactly the same way men do. There is not anything wrong with how they view love, if men did not provide society would fall apart.

If you really believe women cannot ever love you, then maybe right hand will make a better life companion.

Also you claim men love unconditionally, if your wife got morbidly Obese and you had hot women hitting you up every day. Would you still love your wife?
See you argue with logical fallacies bro no offense.

1.) When did I say anything is WRONG with how women love? I never said that. I am simply stating that we should understand that she must respect you in order to love you. Maintain respect. If she starts to make more money than you then she will no longer respect you. Then she will no longer love you. Period.

2.) I never said that men love unconditionally. If i did please show me and I will apologize. I said men SACRIFICE aka love.
 

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Let's define love. I'm not defining love as a feeling. I'm saying love is a verb. To love something you must sacrifice for it. Women don't sacrifice for men. Only for children. So when she says she loves you...it means she loves how you make her FEEL.
The female act of love is submission and sex to a single man. Pregnancy ruins her body and drops her desirability for other men down hugely. Women make a huge sacrifice, in an evolutionary sense, every time she allows a d1ck to enter her - this is her wiring. Hence all the sh1t tests and difficulty. Sex is actually a big call for women - that’s why they can’t afford to be as horny as men, and are much more selective etc

Birth control has changed that, but her brain wiring is still the same.
 

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The female act of love is submission and sex to a single man. Pregnancy ruins her body and drops her desirability for other men down hugely. Women make a huge sacrifice, in an evolutionary sense, every time she allows a d1ck to enter her - this is her wiring. Hence all the sh1t tests and difficulty. Sex is actually a big call for women - that’s why they can’t afford to be as horny as men, and are much more selective etc

Birth control has changed that, but her brain wiring is still the same.
Yes this is very true. I agree and you describe it well. What I am saying though is that women's love is based on your leadership skills. It is extremely conditional. When they say they love you they really mean they get wet by your behavioral traits.

If you were to lose that then it will go away. This is why they initiate divorce. They got too familiar with you and your mystique is gone. Women can't love per se. 95% of the time if a women gets promoted at her job and is higher status than her husband, she leaves him. That's not love. Thats a respect issue.
 

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Yes this is very true. I agree and you describe it well. What I am saying though is that women's love is based on your leadership skills. It is extremely conditional. When they say they love you they really mean they get wet by your behavioral traits.

If you were to lose that then it will go away. This is why they initiate divorce. They got too familiar with you and your mystique is gone. Women can't love per se. 95% of the time if a women gets promoted at her job and is higher status than her husband, she leaves him. That's not love. Thats a respect issue.
Definitely. Women “love” leaders of men because it’s a reflection of her own value (“omg. The most popular guy loves me. I’m a queen. Lawl.”).

I sh1t you not. That’s literally how women experience “love”. It’s like having a shiny toy. It’s totally materialistic.

Female solipsism, for me, is actually quite amusing because it is so vile in some ways.
 

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By the way, women evolved to be solipsistic because it makes sense in nature. Men are disposable in nature. So a woman’s priorities are on the most valuable things - herself and her children.

Men agree with this because men self-sacrifice for women almost innately. It’s scary. Men are just these disposal dildos for women in a purely cold, calculated sexual market sense.
 

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By the way, women evolved to be solipsistic because it makes sense in nature. Men are disposable in nature. So a woman’s priorities are on the most valuable things - herself and her children.

Men agree with this because men self-sacrifice for women almost innately. It’s scary. Men are just these disposal dildos for women in a purely cold, calculated sexual market sense.
In terms of nature Men are just cannon fodder, there really is not a whole lot we can do about it.

Male deaths have been noted as being less dangerous for the overall survivability of the species than female deaths; since one male can impregnate many females, but females are limited in how fast they can reproduce
 

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2.) I never said that men love unconditionally. If i did please show me and I will apologize. I said men SACRIFICE aka love.
He's confusing your post with mine. I said that. After thinking about it, I retract that statement. I realized that scarcity is a condition that if changed, could result in lack of attachment.
 
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I've seen women love men that they'd don't respect either. Men they feel sorry for. Losers.
 

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Women do love men, they just do it in a different more emotional way. Women have been known to kill themselves over lovers, it's such a strong rush of emotions.
Women love conditionally while men love unconditionally. It is just the way it works.

So they "love you" for what you do for them in "that moment" while men just love without the requirements I.E. for what she is/stands for.

Men can never be loved by women the way we want to be loved by them.

The sooner one comes to terms with this, the "easier" you life will be.

This is also one of the reasons why JBY is a horrible advice because women will never appreciate and love you for that.
 

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Actually, women are known for mostly failed suicide attempts (attention seeking).

Men, by far, kill themselves in higher number and far more successfully.

You gotta shed that bluepill conditioning man. Women will never love you.
Take a look at the spike in male suicide rates during divorces. To my knowledge, there's no increase in female suicide.
 

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Take a look at the spike in male suicide rates during divorces. To my knowledge, there's no increase in female suicide.
Of course not they get free therapy sessions from their simps lol
 
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