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Women can't love men, they can only respect

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It is often said that women can not love a man, they can only respect him. I never understood what that meant until recently. I am involved with this girl and she is in limerance. She states " i want to be like you".

This is how they love. By want to be you. Men love by wanting to provide and protect. They want to be us. Their definition of love does not entail a duty to provide and protect. It is simply based on respect and admiration.

What me and this girl feel for each other is infatuation. I know that one day her respect for me will diminish. I will become mundane. Even superheroes eventually become ordinary. At this point she will leave me. Her interest will wane and she may move on to a new guy.

I don't think relationships were meant to last forever. The 7 year itch served a function. It takes 7 yrs for the children to be somewhat independent. After those 7 yrs or so maybe women were designed to leave.

Us men just have to accept this reality.
 

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It is often said that women can not love a man, they can only respect him. I never understood what that meant until recently. I am involved with this girl and she is in limerance. She states " i want to be like you".

This is how they love. By want to be you. Men love by wanting to provide and protect. They want to be us. Their definition of love does not entail a duty to provide and protect. It is simply based on respect and admiration.

What me and this girl feel for each other is infatuation. I know that one day her respect for me will diminish. I will become mundane. Even superheroes eventually become ordinary. At this point she will leave me. Her interest will wane and she may move on to a new guy.

I don't think relationships were meant to last forever. The 7 year itch served a function. It takes 7 yrs for the children to be somewhat independent. After those 7 yrs or so maybe women were designed to leave.

Us men just have to accept this reality.
+1

It's the west. It's also fellas playing house with *** dumpsters. Bodies for days.

That ^^^ ain't even rotation material but dorks are playing house with *** dumpsters.

It's clown world in the west.

Majority of men here and irl want to play house. They want a family. Hell, nearly all the YouTubes channels championing game are playing house. It's male nature and biology. Lineage is of high importance to most men.

It's absurd the effort fellas put into their investment portfolio or their gym routine and their wardrobe but will marry the 1st semi decent looking skank off the carousel.

Fellas need to value their seed, resources, lifestyle, name, and lineage. Guard it with your life.
 

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Respect is a competent of love. Other than perhaps your children or nephews/nieces, can you think of anyone you loved but did not respect?
Many people. For example my father, mother, some friends. I do not respect these people. They are not very wise. I do not disrespect them I just don't look up to them. I do not want to emulate them.

Women have to admire you in order to love you. Men dont have to admire in order to love. Most of the time we dont admire the women we are with yet we still love them. You dont admire you dog yet you still love it etc.

When I say respect I mean admire. Maybe I am missing the true definition of respect. Can you give me your definition bro? Thanks
 

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It's absurd the effort fellas put into their investment portfolio or their gym routine and their wardrobe but will marry the 1st semi decent looking skank off the carousel.
Yeh dude its true. Im guilty of this sometimes. Especially when I was younger. But honestly bro what choice do we have? If we want a family all we have left are skanks. I guess in this day and era it is better to be childless than to have a child by a *****.
 

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Yeh dude its true. Im guilty of this sometimes. Especially when I was younger. But honestly bro what choice do we have? If we want a family all we have left are skanks. I guess in this day and era it is better to be childless than to have a child by a *****.
Nah. Respectfully, I disagree.

In aggregate yes but, the premise all is self-defeating. This is coming from a fella that subscribes to enjoy the decline. I personally couldn't be any closer to black pill without actually adoption of the ideology. My opinion on people especially women couldn't be any more lower than it already is. My point is that the notion won't motivate you or I assuming that ALL anything is already predetermined.

Outside of you, @SW15 @nicksaiz65 and some others on this forum; nearly nobody actually approaches. The biggest YouTube channels champ game. Don't approach. can't pull. Are playing house. Tate has commented on the space. No shot fired. We're talking the 1% globally. LESS THAN 1% are competent let alone any good. I 100% agree with you about no child with a *****.

To answer your question, fellas need to work more volume. Granted your average guy approached 0 but YouTube channel &&& buy my rubbish program. Geo max is an option not necessarily for girls but culture. Lower taxes. Better lifestyle. Read nomad capitalists book. Hilarious segment. Mentions his experience in dating in the west vs abroad. It's not even relatively close.

Drastic action must be taken. We're competing for 1% of the female population that would be outside the metric of skank.
 

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It is often said that women can not love a man, they can only respect him. I never understood what that meant until recently. I am involved with this girl and she is in limerance. She states " i want to be like you".

This is how they love. By want to be you. Men love by wanting to provide and protect. They want to be us. Their definition of love does not entail a duty to provide and protect. It is simply based on respect and admiration.

What me and this girl feel for each other is infatuation. I know that one day her respect for me will diminish. I will become mundane. Even superheroes eventually become ordinary. At this point she will leave me. Her interest will wane and she may move on to a new guy.

I don't think relationships were meant to last forever. The 7 year itch served a function. It takes 7 yrs for the children to be somewhat independent. After those 7 yrs or so maybe women were designed to leave.

Us men just have to accept this reality.
If she wants to “be like you” then that’s called “penis envy.”

It’s extremely dangerous to associate with women who think in this way. They will start saying things like - “why is your salary more than double my salary? I want a salary like yours.”

If a woman said “I want to be like you” I’d respond to her by saying “I’d have to dump you because I’m not gay and if you were anything like me you’d have a very large penis.”
 

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It's even biblical about love and respect.

I forget the verse.... Google it.

Goes like this tho.

"A Husband must love his wife and a wife must respect her husband"

God is saying.... and commands the man first. To love your wife because we don't love naturally as men and then God commands for women to respect their husband's second because God knows women don't respect naturally.....

This is in ephesians.

Epi
 

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Love is just a narcotic that women produce to get men to simp for them.

I could compare it to the sticky silk of a spider.

Men experience Love, Women experience Hypergamy.

And men in the past all used to know this. What happened? They even used to call it "love sick" in medieval times and treated it like a disease. The Odyssey tells of men wrecking their ships on rocks because of dangerous women. All common knowledge back then.
 

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Women do love men, they just do it in a different more emotional way. Women have been known to kill themselves over lovers, it's such a strong rush of emotions.

Women are willing to abandon everything they know just for a lover.
 

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Women do love men, they just do it in a different more emotional way. Women have been known to kill themselves over lovers, it's such a strong rush of emotions.

Women are willing to abandon everything they know just for a lover.
Actually, women are known for mostly failed suicide attempts (attention seeking).

Men, by far, kill themselves in higher number and far more successfully.

You gotta shed that bluepill conditioning man. Women will never love you.
 

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Actually, women are known for mostly failed suicide attempts (attention seeking).

Men, by far, kill themselves in higher number and far more successfully.

You gotta shed that bluepill conditioning man. Women will never love you.
We just going to ignore the fact that women stay with Wife Beaters no matter what? Women also stay loyal their husbands when they go to prison for years. Women have plenty of options yet still choose to stay loyal to these types of men, idk about you but i would call that love.

Women are just wired very differently from us, they say they want a man who is soft and romantic yet 50 shades of grey was the most popular book with female readers.
 
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We just going to ignore the fact that women stay with Wife Beaters no matter what? Women also stay loyal their husbands when they go to prison for years. Women have plenty of options yet still choose to stay loyal to these types of men, idk about you but i would call that love.

Women are just wired very differently from us, they say they want a man who is soft and romantic yet 50 shades of grey was the most popular book with female readers.
Yep. Women stay with guys who don’t like them (communicating they are higher value) - this is hypergamy, not love. The moment she meets a guy who is higher value, and available to her, guess what happens to her current man? He gets erased.
 

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Yep. Women stay with guys who don’t like them (communicating they are higher value) - this is hypergamy, not love. The moment she meets a guy who is higher value, and available to her, guess what happens to her current man? He gets erased.
By that same logic a man would leave his girlfriend if a hotter one came along, so by that logic man cannot love either.

But the world isn't so black and white, there are countless examples of both women staying with partners after they became physically/mentally disabled. Caring and loving for them. It's called the Florence Nightingale syndrome.

Women love in a different way, men on this forum need to stop with this black pill nonsense. Women are not the enemy
 

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By that same logic a man would leave his girlfriend if a hotter one came along, so by that logic man cannot love either.

But the world isn't so black and white, there are countless examples of both women staying with partners after they became physically/mentally disabled. Caring and loving for them. It's called the Florence Nightingale syndrome.

Women love in a different way, men on this forum need to stop with this black pill nonsense. Women are not the enemy
It's a bit different. Men want sex with multiple different women ideally. But most men aren't in that position. Most men aren't chosen by women, so they are in a much weaker position. The few men that are chosen by all women tend to not "love" women idealistically. They are practical and pragmatic when dealing with women.

I think you'd find that any person with high abundance has trouble with the idea of love. Man or Woman.

Love comes from scarcity and monogamy. This is useful for environments where there are limited resources. In that case, you hold onto what you've got and value it a lot more.

I think that the "Love" you are referring to is that exciting hormonal rush you get when you just start to "fall" for a new woman (women experience these same hormones when she's pursuing a guy who doesn't like her). These hormones is Nature's way tricking you into having children and investing in her (beta provider - and you'll never know if the children are yours). But once children are made, or if a few years pass and no children are made, then Nature turns off the hormones (otherwise known as the honeymoon period).
 

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It's even biblical about love and respect.

I forget the verse.... Google it.

Goes like this tho.

"A Husband must love his wife and a wife must respect her husband"

God is saying.... and commands the man first. To love your wife because we don't love naturally as men and then God commands for women to respect their husband's second because God knows women don't respect naturally.....

This is in ephesians.

Epi
Exactly bro. If a woman does not admire you she will never love you. She may have affection for you but the relationship is doomed.

She has to " look up" to you in some way. You have to have qualities that she desires to have but she can't. For example decisiveness is highly attractive to women. They respect leaders because they have no abiltiy to lead.

You don't want a girl to " love" you. Love comes and goes. You want here to deeply admire and respect you. Women cheat on men they love all the time. They don't cheat on men they respect.
 

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To love some = to provide and protect it

Women only provide and protect for children. Never ever men. So they can't love you in the truest sence of the word.
 

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It's just conditional love, not like men's unconditional love.
Male and female brains work very differently for a number of reasons. That's not necessarily a bad thing, we need to stop expecting women to behave exactly like men.
 
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