mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I was forced into it and was very productive and focused.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Women cant complete you. Kill the thirst
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You make a lot of assumptions. I think I came from a principled position and not
sophistry.
You make the assumption that I see it as impossible that you rejected women.
That is not true. I never wrote or implied that.
Ok I can work with that.
I guess there is not much to commend to your strawmanning.
so how do you see it?
on which side of the spectrum you are and what are you actually doing here (not being cynical or judging, maybe a little bit sexist and curious
)Are u just curious about red pill
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm here because I have faults and want to improve myself.so how do you see it?
on which side of the spectrum you are and what are you actually doing here (not being cynical or judging, maybe a little bit sexist and curious
Are u just curious about red pill
I'm here because I'm horrified there's so few confident, dominant men in societies as relates to their roles with women and I'm scared.
I'm here as a distraction to occupy my mind and emotions so I keep no contact with my ex.
I'm here to note if there's many other humans who have decided to go childfree by choice like me.(the nkaf in my profile name stands for no kids and fixed)
I'm here to make a public record of accountability and learning.....a place where I'm stimulated and corrected and brought to deeper understanding of things.
almost finished reading book Waken the Tiger that covers the healing of trauma. Best one on trauma I've read so far.
That's because ur society teaches their men to treat women as some sort of celebrity.
Because of that, women treats them like celebrities treats fans.
Now if only the men here (who claims red pilled maxxed) treats women as if they are their fans, then the women would treat them like celebrities.
Problem solved.
pretty much nailed it Spaz.
Now where you are, roles are better defined and expectations are clear.
One day I'll visit that society with friends.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Is
is this scientifically proven? or men are conditioned to think that sex is Gold?
I'm not sure if this is proven scientifically but I do know in talking with many women that they are perfectly fine in taking breaks from men for 1-10 years or more, including sex. I've met/dated women that have been to themselves for a few years without any issues. I can't really say the same for men though...
Women know how to regulate themselves(at least some) where as guys can't.
If a guy could get sex with a lot of women at any given time, I don't think you'll see him staying at home where as women can do this easily.
woman after 40 don't count, also woman with children, is not they take a "break", is they are so low on the market there is not even a guy crazy enough to try her.
its the same as somoene ugly who can never pull woman tell everyone he don't want to date woman, because he is happy, but the moment a girl give him a little atencion, he is going after her. he have not choice so he find a answer to apease his mind
These are high quality women I'm talking about from age 28-51. I don't know how may people here on this forum has gone out with many high quality women before.
You're right. I agree.
But I don't think that.
So being dishonest isn't an option to me any longer. Calibrating to becoming more feminine is challenging when I feel I will die if I don't remain authentic. Not sure you observe this wavelength but thanks for the observational feedback.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Do you know why you think like that and I think differently?
It's because you fvck who you can.
And I fvck who I want.
We r not the same.
then we need to state a metric, what would consider a quality woman? only schoolarship is week, and I know most here who consider a quality woman I wouldn't so, and serious I do prefer to stay alone then with someone who will drag me down or hold me back, dating around is so damn easy I see little reason to settle
Everyone has their version but what I mean by HQ is someone that has come from a good family and maintains a strong bond with them, has a good job, mentally stable, is not a protestor/hardcore feminist, is off or doesn't participate much in social media, has had long term relationships and is LTR oriented, has good positive role models/friends, etc.
I'm not talking about BPD Starbuck's barista's that's come from a broken home with depression/mental issues that our out there protesting, sleeping with every guy, seeking validation and control off OLD/social media, always drinking/smoking, don't know how to manage their finances, etc.
Yeah they can be rare indeed. I've been fortunate to have been in a position to date quite a few. I don't know what it is about me or the vibe I give off to attract these types either. Just earlier this year, I dated a COO and I'm thinking what the hell does she possibly see in me. LOL
Weird thing about OLD for me, I don't match with 100's of gals like others but the ones I do match with, 80% of them turn into meeting for a date, 80% of them end up being decent chicks, and 40% of that turns into STR/LTR's...
no one said is not, but saying woman don't need is wrong.
remember when a woman yell I wanna have sex in the street guys will pop from hell and they will even make a line if a woman is willing to give to everyone.
if a guy do the same he is lucky if 2 gays show up.
thing is woman when she need, she will find a guy, hence why most woman never really paid for having sex with men, but remember there is male prostitutes too and male gold diggers, who go after oldies, rich old ladies, is not because is not used a lot on main stream it means it don't exist, or common
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.