Ridingthelightning
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Would you bang a chick you knew had an STD? Yes, condom included.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
>_<The Decay of Meaning said:Sexually transmitted diseases
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
True sayDonGorgon said:everyone says no.. but males desperation causes all types of stuff to happen..lol
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
More like horniness. Anyone here who says they wouldn't bang Megan Fox/Marissa Miller/Alessandra Ambrosio etc. with a condom on after a few drinks and dancing at the club if they knew she had gonorrhea or herpes is either deluding themselves or VERY strong willed.DonGorgon said:everyone says no.. but males desperation causes all types of stuff to happen..lol
If everybody thought like that, you prob woulda never been born!Kerpal said:I would if gonorrhea, but not herpes. Gonorrhea is easily curable, herpes is incurable and condoms don't prevent herpes.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Megan Fox is covered in stupid looking tattoos now. I'm not sure I'd have sex with her now even without STDs.Just a Shot Away said:More like horniness. Anyone here who says they wouldn't bang Megan Fox/Marissa Miller/Alessandra Ambrosio etc. with a condom on after a few drinks and dancing at the club if they knew she had gonorrhea or herpes is either deluding themselves or VERY strong willed.
Be real man. You can honestly say that you're unsure if you would bang this broad because she has some dumbass's name above her crotch? Tattoos don't show up too well in the dark.Nexus Polaris said:Megan Fox is covered in stupid looking tattoos now. I'm not sure I'd have sex with her now even without STDs.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.