Ridingthelightning
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Would you bang a chick you knew had an STD? Yes, condom included.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
>_<The Decay of Meaning said:Sexually transmitted diseases
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
True sayDonGorgon said:everyone says no.. but males desperation causes all types of stuff to happen..lol
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
More like horniness. Anyone here who says they wouldn't bang Megan Fox/Marissa Miller/Alessandra Ambrosio etc. with a condom on after a few drinks and dancing at the club if they knew she had gonorrhea or herpes is either deluding themselves or VERY strong willed.DonGorgon said:everyone says no.. but males desperation causes all types of stuff to happen..lol
If everybody thought like that, you prob woulda never been born!Kerpal said:I would if gonorrhea, but not herpes. Gonorrhea is easily curable, herpes is incurable and condoms don't prevent herpes.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Megan Fox is covered in stupid looking tattoos now. I'm not sure I'd have sex with her now even without STDs.Just a Shot Away said:More like horniness. Anyone here who says they wouldn't bang Megan Fox/Marissa Miller/Alessandra Ambrosio etc. with a condom on after a few drinks and dancing at the club if they knew she had gonorrhea or herpes is either deluding themselves or VERY strong willed.
Be real man. You can honestly say that you're unsure if you would bang this broad because she has some dumbass's name above her crotch? Tattoos don't show up too well in the dark.Nexus Polaris said:Megan Fox is covered in stupid looking tattoos now. I'm not sure I'd have sex with her now even without STDs.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.