Ridingthelightning
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Would you bang a chick you knew had an STD? Yes, condom included.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
>_<The Decay of Meaning said:Sexually transmitted diseases
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
True sayDonGorgon said:everyone says no.. but males desperation causes all types of stuff to happen..lol
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
More like horniness. Anyone here who says they wouldn't bang Megan Fox/Marissa Miller/Alessandra Ambrosio etc. with a condom on after a few drinks and dancing at the club if they knew she had gonorrhea or herpes is either deluding themselves or VERY strong willed.DonGorgon said:everyone says no.. but males desperation causes all types of stuff to happen..lol
If everybody thought like that, you prob woulda never been born!Kerpal said:I would if gonorrhea, but not herpes. Gonorrhea is easily curable, herpes is incurable and condoms don't prevent herpes.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Megan Fox is covered in stupid looking tattoos now. I'm not sure I'd have sex with her now even without STDs.Just a Shot Away said:More like horniness. Anyone here who says they wouldn't bang Megan Fox/Marissa Miller/Alessandra Ambrosio etc. with a condom on after a few drinks and dancing at the club if they knew she had gonorrhea or herpes is either deluding themselves or VERY strong willed.
Be real man. You can honestly say that you're unsure if you would bang this broad because she has some dumbass's name above her crotch? Tattoos don't show up too well in the dark.Nexus Polaris said:Megan Fox is covered in stupid looking tattoos now. I'm not sure I'd have sex with her now even without STDs.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.