frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
yes..perfect and for the guys who dont know:
sweet = charm
sour = ****y and funny
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Woman want a Sweet man
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sweet = charm
sour = ****y and funny
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
On a side note..
ever since I got the news I will be a dad in July....
(its also sad to note that many people here cut me down...and said that I was a loser with a bastard son coming, thats how inmature guys are here..where is the class and respect for one another)
and I dont always show class either.
but since that happened..ive been softer and softer..which isnt bad..but my desire to compete and be alpha with other men has gone away..now my desire is to better myself and teach my son how to be a strong(good) man.
I just think the young people, love em for there energy..but really take things to dramatic for the power of being a man.
ever since I got the news I will be a dad in July....
(its also sad to note that many people here cut me down...and said that I was a loser with a bastard son coming, thats how inmature guys are here..where is the class and respect for one another)
and I dont always show class either.
but since that happened..ive been softer and softer..which isnt bad..but my desire to compete and be alpha with other men has gone away..now my desire is to better myself and teach my son how to be a strong(good) man.
I just think the young people, love em for there energy..but really take things to dramatic for the power of being a man.
TillTheEndOfTime
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frivolousz21 said:this forum just stresses so much on not being used..that I think guys here dont realize they still need to be sweet.
This forum stresses so much on the little details that many people miss the big picture.
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
What the hell is wrong with you?frivolousz21 said:
The woman looks bad, even for a 50 year old, she's fat and angry for chrissakes! And yeah, do you think that perhaps, in a post about being sweet, what I say may have been a joke? Comic juxtaposition Maybe?
Calm down.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.