"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Woman want a Sweet man

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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frivolousz21

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On a side note..

ever since I got the news I will be a dad in July....
(its also sad to note that many people here cut me down...and said that I was a loser with a bastard son coming, thats how inmature guys are here..where is the class and respect for one another)

and I dont always show class either.

but since that happened..ive been softer and softer..which isnt bad..but my desire to compete and be alpha with other men has gone away..now my desire is to better myself and teach my son how to be a strong(good) man.

I just think the young people, love em for there energy..but really take things to dramatic for the power of being a man.
 

SamePendo

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frivolousz21 said:
I really like sweet men....
well my uncle was a charmer....
i remember the things he would say to me...when I was a kid..
but since that happened..ive been softer and softer..
I just think the young people, love em for there energy..
:yes:


frivolousz21 said:
lol, fine make fun of me
Ok.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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frivolousz21 said:
this forum just stresses so much on not being used..that I think guys here dont realize they still need to be sweet. :)

This forum stresses so much on the little details that many people miss the big picture.
 

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frivolousz21 said:
1. what does his wife being hot have to do with anything? the man is 50 yrs old with a family.

2. wow ur so fycking cool..and hard arse...seriously does that stroke ur ego to type that?
What the hell is wrong with you?

The woman looks bad, even for a 50 year old, she's fat and angry for chrissakes! And yeah, do you think that perhaps, in a post about being sweet, what I say may have been a joke? Comic juxtaposition Maybe?
Calm down.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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