"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Woman want a Sweet man

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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frivolousz21

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On a side note..

ever since I got the news I will be a dad in July....
(its also sad to note that many people here cut me down...and said that I was a loser with a bastard son coming, thats how inmature guys are here..where is the class and respect for one another)

and I dont always show class either.

but since that happened..ive been softer and softer..which isnt bad..but my desire to compete and be alpha with other men has gone away..now my desire is to better myself and teach my son how to be a strong(good) man.

I just think the young people, love em for there energy..but really take things to dramatic for the power of being a man.
 

SamePendo

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frivolousz21 said:
I really like sweet men....
well my uncle was a charmer....
i remember the things he would say to me...when I was a kid..
but since that happened..ive been softer and softer..
I just think the young people, love em for there energy..
:yes:


frivolousz21 said:
lol, fine make fun of me
Ok.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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frivolousz21 said:
this forum just stresses so much on not being used..that I think guys here dont realize they still need to be sweet. :)

This forum stresses so much on the little details that many people miss the big picture.
 

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frivolousz21 said:
1. what does his wife being hot have to do with anything? the man is 50 yrs old with a family.

2. wow ur so fycking cool..and hard arse...seriously does that stroke ur ego to type that?
What the hell is wrong with you?

The woman looks bad, even for a 50 year old, she's fat and angry for chrissakes! And yeah, do you think that perhaps, in a post about being sweet, what I say may have been a joke? Comic juxtaposition Maybe?
Calm down.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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