frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
yes..perfect and for the guys who dont know:
sweet = charm
sour = ****y and funny
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Woman want a Sweet man
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sweet = charm
sour = ****y and funny
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
On a side note..
ever since I got the news I will be a dad in July....
(its also sad to note that many people here cut me down...and said that I was a loser with a bastard son coming, thats how inmature guys are here..where is the class and respect for one another)
and I dont always show class either.
but since that happened..ive been softer and softer..which isnt bad..but my desire to compete and be alpha with other men has gone away..now my desire is to better myself and teach my son how to be a strong(good) man.
I just think the young people, love em for there energy..but really take things to dramatic for the power of being a man.
ever since I got the news I will be a dad in July....
(its also sad to note that many people here cut me down...and said that I was a loser with a bastard son coming, thats how inmature guys are here..where is the class and respect for one another)
and I dont always show class either.
but since that happened..ive been softer and softer..which isnt bad..but my desire to compete and be alpha with other men has gone away..now my desire is to better myself and teach my son how to be a strong(good) man.
I just think the young people, love em for there energy..but really take things to dramatic for the power of being a man.
TillTheEndOfTime
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frivolousz21 said:this forum just stresses so much on not being used..that I think guys here dont realize they still need to be sweet.
This forum stresses so much on the little details that many people miss the big picture.
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
What the hell is wrong with you?frivolousz21 said:
The woman looks bad, even for a 50 year old, she's fat and angry for chrissakes! And yeah, do you think that perhaps, in a post about being sweet, what I say may have been a joke? Comic juxtaposition Maybe?
Calm down.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.