frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
yes..perfect and for the guys who dont know:
sweet = charm
sour = ****y and funny
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Woman want a Sweet man
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sweet = charm
sour = ****y and funny
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
On a side note..
ever since I got the news I will be a dad in July....
(its also sad to note that many people here cut me down...and said that I was a loser with a bastard son coming, thats how inmature guys are here..where is the class and respect for one another)
and I dont always show class either.
but since that happened..ive been softer and softer..which isnt bad..but my desire to compete and be alpha with other men has gone away..now my desire is to better myself and teach my son how to be a strong(good) man.
I just think the young people, love em for there energy..but really take things to dramatic for the power of being a man.
ever since I got the news I will be a dad in July....
(its also sad to note that many people here cut me down...and said that I was a loser with a bastard son coming, thats how inmature guys are here..where is the class and respect for one another)
and I dont always show class either.
but since that happened..ive been softer and softer..which isnt bad..but my desire to compete and be alpha with other men has gone away..now my desire is to better myself and teach my son how to be a strong(good) man.
I just think the young people, love em for there energy..but really take things to dramatic for the power of being a man.
TillTheEndOfTime
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frivolousz21 said:this forum just stresses so much on not being used..that I think guys here dont realize they still need to be sweet.
This forum stresses so much on the little details that many people miss the big picture.
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
What the hell is wrong with you?frivolousz21 said:
The woman looks bad, even for a 50 year old, she's fat and angry for chrissakes! And yeah, do you think that perhaps, in a post about being sweet, what I say may have been a joke? Comic juxtaposition Maybe?
Calm down.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.