"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Woman gets mad and blocks me for not responding to a text in 5 minutes...LMAO

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've noticed this more and more over the years; women getting really p*ssed if you don't message back immediately over OLD or text. I've had a few overtly tell me off because I didn't message fast enough. Funny as hell. I mean, f*ck, I'm busy and sometimes I take a day or two. For whatever reason it really p*sses them off. Imagine what dating them would be like.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've noticed this more and more over the years; women getting really p*ssed if you don't message back immediately over OLD or text. I've had a few overtly tell me off because I didn't message fast enough. Funny as hell. I mean, f*ck, I'm busy and sometimes I take a day or two. For whatever reason it really p*sses them off. Imagine what dating them would be like.
First one I have come across...holy hell...wtf is that about. I don't dance unless I hear music and I don't scratch my head unless it itches.
 

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First one I have come across...holy hell...wtf is that about. I don't dance unless I hear music and I don't scratch my head unless it itches.
I think it's because they've been conditioned by all the supplicating soy boys who slobber all over themselves at the premise of a date and kiss her ass on command. Then, she runs into an attractive guy on OLD or IRL who DGAF and doesn't pedestal-ize her and she freaks out as her fragile little ego gets hurt.

It wasn't like this in the early years of OLD, pre-apps and social media. Now, feeding women endless amounts of attention via social media and OLD is like endless amounts of powder for the coke addict.
 

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I think it's because they've been conditioned by all the supplicating soy boys who slobber all over themselves at the premise of a date and kiss her ass on command. Then, she runs into an attractive guy on OLD or IRL who DGAF and doesn't pedestal-ize her and she freaks out as her fragile little ego gets hurt.

It wasn't like this in the early years of OLD, pre-apps and social media. Now, feeding women endless amounts of attention via social media and OLD is like endless amounts of powder for the coke addict.
As a thread was recently saying, but everyone argued
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The action itself was already a RED FLAG, and you dodged a bullet right there.
 

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Met a girl Tuesday last week, had an absolutely great night and I believe she did too.

Then on the Saturday she had no plans, I did though....

And because I didnt jump at the chance to meet her instead, she Blocked me

I actually got more action when I was a Beta from Betasville
 

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Met a girl Tuesday last week, had an absolutely great night and I believe she did too.

Then on the Saturday she had no plans, I did though....

And because I didnt jump at the chance to meet her instead, she Blocked me

I actually got more action when I was a Beta from Betasville
Haha, a plate being angry for no reasonable reasons is her problem, not yours. The world is infested with self-entitled spoiled crazy women more than ever. And all we as men can do, is to hold our frames, even if it means losing one or two pvssies every now and then.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Haha, a plate being angry for no reasonable reasons is her problem, not yours.
Ive noticed recently how whack their conversation skills are as well,

ME , Me , me................More me.....................................Other Men................

then they have the audacity to ghost you over a stray eyebrow

imagine the rolls reversed
 

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Ive noticed recently how whack their conversation skills are as well,

ME , Me , me................More me.....................................Other Men................

then they have the audacity to ghost you over a stray eyebrow

imagine the rolls reversed
They were allowed to act that way by the simping society.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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